Friday, January 1, 2010

"King John" Satterlund

John Satterlund
Born May 3, 1851 (or 1850) in Sweden
Died Dec 17, 1930 in Bismarck, ND


Read more about John Satterlund here.
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King John Satterlund
Tuesday, November 1, 2005
Dakota Datebook, Prairie Public - http://www.prairiepublic.org/
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Washburn, the oldest city in McLean County, was founded on this date in 1882. The man responsible was John Satterlund, who, by the time he died, was known across the state as “King John.”
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Satterlund immigrated with his parents from Carlstadt, Sweden, when he was 18. He was smart, well educated, and a risk-taker. The family settled in Minnesota, but John headed west, ahead of the railroad, when he was 22. He established his first homestead 15 miles north of Bismarck, at a spot called Dry Point, and then headed north to Canada to help build the railroad between Port Arthur and Fort Williams. When he returned four years later, he bought a large chunk of land in Burleigh County and got serious about farming and ranching. But, it didn’t appear to satisfy him.
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He soon speculated on property farther north and planned out the city of Washburn. He became one of the first commissioners for Burleigh County and then set his sites on breaking away to form McLean County, with Washburn as the county seat. Satterlund served as the new county’s first sheriff and was also a U.S. Marshal for four years.
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Continuing his trail blazing, Satterlund opened a roller mill, in Washburn, and the Merchants Hotel in Bismarck. He established the first Bismarck-Washburn stage line and, with his long-time friend Louis Peterson, brought in the first telephone service between the two towns. Satterlund was also the editor and publisher of his own newspaper, the Washburn Leader, and was the receiver in the Bismarck land office for 12 years. And if that’s not enough, he owned his own coalmine – the well-known Black Diamond.
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Not to say Satterlund had no private or social life. The Bismarck Tribune reported, “…one of those astute popular leaders in his heyday, Satterlund was said to know more men by name than any of his contemporaries…” He was popular about town and belonged to the Elks and the Masons. On the home front, he and his wife, Charlotte, raised five children.
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It’s no surprise that Satterlund also got into politics. He was twice elected to the state legislature and soon concentrated on getting handpicked men into office. One of his good friends was a U.S. senator from Wisconsin – C. C. Washburn – for whom his town was named. In fact, it was Washburn who was able to give King John the one thing he didn’t have – a railroad line into town.
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But, not everybody admired Satterlund. Bismarck’s Alexander McKenzie was also in his heyday during this time, and the two political bosses often locked horns – especially when McKenzie’s powerful machine tried to cross the county line into Satterlund’s turf. The Tribune states, however, “…never did Satterlund quail or recede from McKenzie’s forays into his territory.”
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A 1930 obituary gives us a hint that King John was, of course, not perfect. At the time of his death in December 1930, he’d been seriously ill for a year. He had a daughter living nearby, yet he was living alone in the Grand Pacific Hotel in Bismarck. Charlotte was gone – having moved to California to live with another daughter.“There have been many instances of misused authority in the summing up of Satterlund’s life,” the obituary reads, “but the good that might be said of him far outweighed the balance. He was the product of an era when [bosses were] good for the country… He was of the old school, a real man, and McLean county regrets his passing.”
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Sources:The King is dead; there will be no king. McLean County Independent. Circa 20 Dec 1930.Funeral services set for Wednesday at Washburn Hall. The Bismarck Tribune. 18 Dec 1930

Friday, December 25, 2009

Auntie Poncie's Santas - ca 1920 and 1960

Auntie Poncie - Florence Satterlund - was Hilda Satterlund Wenz's sister; thus she was Caroline's aunt and Betsy's great-aunt.

In about 1920, Auntie Poncie sent this Santa card to Caroline. Santa's legs are hinged like a wheel, and you can make him"walk" by rolling the card gently across the table. See front and rear images of this card below - click to enlarge.
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In the late 1950s-1960, Florence sent Betsy her own Santa card, sometime after Christmas. Hilda must have been visiting her at the time. Her note to Betsy is transcribed beneath the exterior and interior images.





Dear Betsy -
You will wonder what time of year this is. Well, Grandma* suggested I send it now any way. You know I was in the hospital Xmas - from Dec. 2 to Jan. 30th - a long time and I am so slow in getting my strength back. Grandma is having a nap and she is snoring.
Love
Auntie Ponce
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*NOTE: "Grandma" was Betsy's grandmother, Hilda Satterlund Wenz, Florence's older sister.

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Christmas Eve - A Hundred Years Ago

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[Postmarked]
Boise
Dec 24, 1909
8-PM
Idaho

[Addressed to]
Mr. Edward L. Wenz
Perrysburg Ohio

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The Day Before Christmas

Dear Edward

I know I should have written last night – but I served so late – I was sleepy when I should have felt like writing. Have been home all afternoon stuffing dates and salting almonds to fix up several boxes. The General was not going to let us have half a day – we were to have been excused at three – but Miss Leonard made a kick so he summoned us all to his presence and gave us another spiel and – a half holiday.

Well of all the curious persons I am it – but still – I am not going to do as Pandora did – and a certain most interesting little box with big red seals from Freeman’s, Toledo, will not be opened until to-morrow morning. If I opened it before then – why I am afraid a good bit of the Christmas joy would take wings and fly away. I can hardly wait for to-morrow morning – wonder if I opened it shortly after twelve to-night – no, I shall wait till morning. Am I acting foolishly or kiddish(ly) – or am I guilty of too much Christmas sentiment? A combination of all I guess.

I have quite a number of other packages to be opened – and dad sent me [illegible – looks like “an”] “X”

I have kept so very busy and have done more than I have ever done at this time of year – but there was a decidedly selfish motive behind it all – I have not allowed myself to be lonely or homesick (not very anyway) when keeping busy.

I rather looked for a letter from you this morning – and shall be quite disappointed if it does not come in the morning. I hope you are having as fine Christmas weather as we – we have about two inches of snow and it is cold enough to be snappy.

The Callisters have a tree and some entertainment this evening – but I must go to church first and look after “my youngsters” so they get their “treat” – and will then stop in down stairs for awhile.

Your
Hilda





NOTE:
The letter was written on two sheets of paper, each folded in half. The letter's first page was on the front folded side of the first sheet, the second page was on the back folded side, and the third page was the entire inside of the first sheet opened up. The pattern was repeated for the next three pages of the letter. The scanning process above distorts the proportions. Picture that the handwriting remains the same size on all pages... and the two long pages are exactly twice as large as the four short pages.
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Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Aunt Louisa

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Louisa's Christmas card in 1960 - front with window to photo inside

In the 1950s, Caroline met Louisa J. through her work as an editor. They became close friends and remained so even after Louisa moved away, corresponding until dementia prevented Caroline from writing. Betsy remembers her as "Aunt Louisa," a loving presence in her early childhood and a caring correspondent - on paper, through email and now Facebook - ever since.
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Although Louisa mentions Betsy as the only child she ever carried in her arms, she was later to become a loving mother/stepmother through her happy marriage to Paul D.
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In an August 2004 email, not long before Caroline's death, Louisa wrote to Betsy:
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Caroline and I have been such close friends for so many years. I know she would not remember me now, but our ties are strong. We stood together when times were rough and had fun along the way. [Here she describes some of the hard times through which they helped each other.]
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Of course, the wonderful time when you were born was very special. Never was a baby so loved. Times may have been difficult at first but your mom was strong and I was so glad to be a part of your childhood. You are the only child I've ever held in my arms, walked the floor with, and treasured as a godchild. I remember that when I had emergency surgery in 1956 and was told I couldn't lift over 30 pounds I said I'd follow that rule unless you reached over 30 pounds in that period. If so, all bets were off.
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When I got my driver's license in 1958, we had wheels and it was such fun to go places together. Though our lives became more complicated as the years went by and Caroline found Mischa and I found Paul, our love did not fade, nor has it now. I miss being able to communicate with her, but treasure her always.
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Caroline was such an intelligent, compassionate, loving human being. Being loved and a part of a family were so important to her and I know she still feels the warmth of the love you and your children bring to her.
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Thank you so much for keeping in touch, Betsy!
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Loads of love to you and yours,
Louisa

Louisa's Christmas card in 1960 - inside card


Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Elfin as a Second Language

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A miniature Christmas card that Betsy received in nursery school, ca 1959,
from a classmate named Donny. A small hook converted it to an ornament
and it still hangs on the tree each year.

Sunday, November 22, 2009

Caroline's Lakefront Home



Caroline lived at 1360 N. Lake Shore Dr. from about 1950-1955. It is one of twin towers; here they are with updated windows in 2009.
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Caroline shared a one-bedroom apartment with a roommate, Ruth Wiley, who became a lifelong friend. This building must then have been one of the least expensive places to live in this Gold Coast neighborhood, located on Chicago's Near North Side. Caroline was an editor at a children's textbook company and Ruth was either a social worker or an administrator for a social service organization.


Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Her Hands












I found many ways to stay close to Mom, up through her last months. I looked at books with her, braided her lovely red hair, helped her bathe, dress, and eat. But even after the abstract concepts of "mother" and "daughter" were lost, I'd lie down like a child with my head on her lap and she would stroke my hair. Her gentle hands on my face and hair comforted my soul.

One day, months after my mother had died, I touched the face of a friend in tears. My friend, who'd cared for my mother too, said, "It feels like Caroline comforting me."

Saturday, October 3, 2009

A Short Trip Through the Mountains

Hilda Satterlund wrote an account of her trip through the mountains near Missoula, Montana, with a friend. The account is written longhand on ruled paper and folded in half vertically. After she folded the pages, Hilda wrote on the top panel:

A Short Trip Through the Mountains
by,
Hilda Satterlund

Hilda's paper appears to be formatted
according to some formal convention. Although possibly it was written for school, it seems unlikely, as Hilda's friend seems to be a peer and was already old enough to be a teacher. Perhaps Hilda wrote this to present at Bismarck's Fortnightly Club, of which she was a member in the early years of the 20th century. It would be safe to say it was written between 1895 and 1905, when she was an older teen or young woman. The title of the account varies slightly from the title written on the fold.

A Short Trip Among the Mountains

While in Missoula, Montana, a friend of mine who was teaching a country school, asked me to visit her. As she was teaching about twenty five miles from Missoula and from any rail road, I thought it would be pleasant and interesting to see some of the mountainous country, and accepted her invitation.

We left Missoula on Sunday morning about eleven o’ clock and stopped at a little village by the name of Bonner and had dinner. The road was a long a [swift] mountain stream by the name of Rattlesnake creek. It was a much used road and comparatively smooth. About one o’ clock we left Bonner. The road became very rough and to me very dangerous, for I had been accustomed to our prairie roads. About four miles from Bonner we went up the side of a mountain and over a grade three miles long. Five hundred fifty feet below us rushed the foaming Blackfoot river in which no boat or man could live, if once within the swift current. Above us were the almost perpendicular walls of the mountains, here and there dotted with pine and sage brush. When we descended again into the valley along the bed of the river, we felt more safe, but the road seemed to get more rough; on account of recent rain storms and the travel of heavily loaded wagons, it was full of deep ruts.

Shortly after entering this valley we came to a quiet looking ranche located among the trees by the river. The house and out buildings were built of logs and altogether it had a desolate looking appearance. It was a warm July day and being thirsty the driver stopped to get us some water. The rancheman’s wife, a pleasant looking woman, came out with a pitcher of iced milk which we relished.

The air was quite blue with smoke from the forest fires, and as we neared the Potomac Valley where my friend taught, the smoke became more dense. We were somewhat afraid that we would not be able to reach our destination.

We soon came to another ranche prettily located by the Blackfoot river and by the mountain side. Neighboring rancheman and laborers from a sawmill near by, were loungeing in the shade of the house and trees. We inquired about the fire and was told that it must be quite close, but did not know just where. When about three miles farther on, on going around the foot of a mountain, we could plainly see the fire across the river. We could feel the heat from the flames which were rapidly creeping up the sides of the tall pines and from the burning of the underbrush. Darkness was fast approaching. The burning trees seemed like large torches lighting our way and the reflection of the fire on the sky was indeed a grand sight. Passing through a cañon and crossing a creek, we entered the Potomac Valley.

The Potomac Valley lies between two ranges of mountains. It is about twelve miles long and four miles wide. We passed several ranches or farms with good sized houses and spacious cattle sheds. There is very little grain raised in this valley but it is rich with hay. We also passed the school house, a little log building, which seemed even more lonely than our Dakota schools.

We reached my friend’s boarding place about dusk, dusty, tired and hungry and partook freely of the supper that was awaiting us.
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Photo of Potomac Valley from the Bitterroot Flickr page - 2007

Blackfoot River - photo by Bitterroot, Flickr page - 2007
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NOTES:
1. Punctuation and spelling are transcribed verbatim from Hilda's original.
2. The two photos are copied from the Flickr page of Bitterroot, who also kept a blog. I wanted to contact Bitterroot to ask her permission to use the two photos but could not find a way to do it. Then I noticed a comment on her blog saying that Bitterroot had passed away in July 2009, surrounded by her family. I could not find a way to contact anyone to ask permission. I hope it is OK that I am using these photos taken by Bitterroot. Although I did not know her, I honor her memory and hope she would have allowed me to use the pictures.

Sunday, September 6, 2009

Edward & Hilda Go to the Orpheum - 1913

In their early married years, Edward & Hilda Wenz lived for a time in Portland, Oregon. In the week beginning January 13, 1913, they attended the Orpheum Theatre at least once.

At the Portland Orpheum, matinee prices ranged from 15 to 50 cents; evening prices went as high as 75 cents. There were Orpheum theatres around the United States, England, and Scotland and even in Paris and Berlin. [Click to enlarge each image.]

This week's program listed the following acts for the Portland Orpheum: (1) Orpheum Orchestra; (2) Louis Stone in the Original Novelty, "Topsy Turvy Dancing"; (3) The Gordon Boys: In a Somewhat Different Offering; (4) The Sioux Indian Seeress LOLO, The Mystic; (5) Royalty's Favorite Roxy La Rocca: In Classical and Popular Selections; (6) Mrs. Langtry (Lady De Bate) In "The Test"; (7) George W. Barry and Maude Wolford: In Their Tuneful Comedy Novelty "At The Song Booth" Singing Their Own Songs; (8) Frank Work and Jewel Play: Representative Acrobatic Jesters."


The program was filled with advertisements purchased by local businesses. One announced the opportunity to subscribe to a new communications service, the Telephone Herald. See below for more detail.

The program announced the impending appearance of Madame Sarah Bernhardt on January 27, with tickets to go on sale at Powers & Estes Drug Store from January 13-19.
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The back cover advertised The Meier & Frank Store's 7th Floor Restaurant, "Where Men Enjoy a Quiet Luncheon and Business Chat," with "Telephone connection at your table on request." The use of the telephone for communications at a business lunch endures to this day; however, the "Telephone Herald" seems to have died aborning. [See below.]

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The program featured a promotion for the novel use of the telephone as a medium of communications - rather like popular radio, which was still to come. For only 5 cents a day, the Telephone Herald promised to bring "music, songs, and parts of plays" as well as "the World's and local news" by a "separate wire system" into your "Home and Office... Like water, gas and electricity, always on tap to be enjoyed at any moment."



This new communications platform was apparently short-lived and may not have gotten beyond the demonstration phase. According to a posting in the newsletter of the Zanesville Amateur Radio Club:
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A short announcement in the October 30, 1909 Electrical Review and Western Electrician, The New Telephone Newspaper, teased that "pretty soon we’ll be able to flop over in bed mornings, turn on a telephone-like arrangement and listen to a summary of news from all over the world without getting up out of bed". … On February 14, 1911, U.S. Patent #984,235, describing "a telephone system... adapted for supplying innumerable subscribers... general news, musical compositions, and operas, sermons, correct or standard time and other happenings at stated intervals of day and night" was granted to Hungarian Árpád Németh and assigned to the United States Telephone Herald Company .

In the June 27, 1912 Oregon Daily Journal, an Advertisement for the Oregon Telephone Herald Company advised the public of the free daily demonstrations and solicited subscribers to the proposed service, which was "The Acme of Modern Civilization", costing five cents a day, and promising "Never a Dull Moment" for a service "Always on Tap!" A second Advertisement for the Oregon Telephone Herald Company, in the June 30, 1912 Oregon Sunday Journal, stated that regular service would begin on "about October 1st". However, it does not appear that the Portland Telephone Herald ever actually got beyond the demonstration stage. And it would be the next decade before individual radio stations began to match the full range of programs offered to Telephone Herald subscribers.

The Newsletter of the Zanesville Amateur Radio Club, Sept/Oct 2008


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Thursday, August 27, 2009

One Mystery Solved

After worrying and worrying that I would lose them before I could bear to live without them, they lived and lived until ages 83 and 88 and when they did die, it was a comfort to know that they had lived long enough for the fearful child, and the mystery of when they would die and how they would die was finally solved.

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With Betsy's first child - 1989

Thursday, July 16, 2009

Caroline Digs for Clams - Summer 1944

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While serving as an officer in the WAVES, Caroline was stationed in Seattle. She and her WAVES friends had time to enjoy the area during her time off. Here she is digging clams at Hood's Canal - though the note on the back indicates she didn't eat any!



Friday, June 12, 2009

After Hilda's Diary

In 1897, eighteen-year-old Hilda Satterlund worked as a clerk at the North Dakota state legislature in Bismarck, then headed north to teach at Sverdrup School near Washburn, where her parents were living. She documented her day-to-day life in a small diary, which she kept from January through mid-July of that year.

Hilda's career advanced the following year. According to p. 289 of The Fifth Biennial Report of the Superintendent of Public Instruction to the Governor of North Dakota for the Two Years Ending June 1898, Hilda served as Stenographer and Librarian at the State Normal School in Valley City, which was founded in 1889.

A "normal school" was a teacher training college.
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Monday, June 1, 2009

The Lucas Home & Store - Perrysburg, Ohio

- This brick building with white trim - photographed above in May 2009 - once housed the store of Betsy's great-great grandfather Lucas in Perrysburg, Ohio. The store appears in an undated photo in Caroline and Peep's family newspaper, Wenz Newz, in January 16, 1931 (below).

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In this January 16, 1931 issue of Wenz Newz, Peep wrote an article - transcribed below - about the store and home owned by the Lucases, the parents of their paternal grandmother. HMW stands for Peep's full name, Hilda Mary Wenz.
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GREATGRAND FATHER LUCAS’S STORE AND HOME - PERRYSBURG, OHIO The building in the above picture was built in 1879 by my great grandfather. It is said to be one of the first brick buildings of its size in Perrysburg. Among the other old buildings was an old tavern which was built shortly before and is no longer standing. The front part on the first floor was a grocery store, while on the second floor the family had six bedrooms and Greatgrand Father’s private library, and on the first floor they had a parlor, dining room and a kitchen. I have a little glass cup that was used in measuring a penny’s worth of candy. HMW
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Saturday, April 4, 2009

The Blue Gargoyle

The Blue Gargoyle is closing after a 40+ year history in Chicago's Hyde Park neighborhood. This community organization has provided vital adult literacy, family literacy, youth tutoring, alternative high school, and counseling services to many thousands of people from across the South Side. Its closing, due to an insurmountable deficit, is a devastating loss.

Students who attended adult & family literacy classes and tutoring there found new ways to strengthen their education and strive for better lives for themselves and their families. The dedicated and talented staff is heroically working without compensation to help currently enrolled clients find new programs once the doors are closed for good.

In this terrible economy, the Blue Gargoyle is needed more than ever.


A mother listens as her 17-month-old son "reads" about Barack Obama.
March 26, 2009

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I worked at the Blue Gargoyle from 1996 to 2001, when I stepped down to help care for Mom during the day. During my years there, I worked in the adult literacy program and, together with Bernadine Williams, established the family literacy program in 1997.

Caroline and Betsy read to children in the Blue Gargoyle Nursery - 2002

I did a little consulting work at the Blue Gargoyle for a couple of years afterwards, and Mom (Caroline) and I sometimes dropped in to visit with friends who still worked there.

We'd visit with Ms. Williams and Charline in the Nursery, and Caroline would read with the children. Although she had trouble making sense in normal conversation, she could still read fluently and engagingly and the children enjoyed it.

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As a Literacy Works staff member, I returned to the Blue Gargoyle to do workshops in which parents discover ways to help their children learn. March 31, 2009 was a bittersweet day - by chance, I was scheduled to present the last family literacy class.


Saturday, February 14, 2009

They're Both for You, My Valentine

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Here's a Valentine from 1926. This little miss can stand by herself, propped up by a support stand. With the help of a hinge, she bends from side to side to reveal the two Valentines she's been hiding in her muff.
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This unsigned card, about 6 inches tall, was in a box of Valentines received by Caroline from 1926 to 1929. See more Valentines from this box.

Saturday, January 31, 2009

Edward's Map of Africa - 1897

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Africa in 1897 looks different than it does today.

At about age 12, Edward created this map using pen, ink, and watercolor. He made the map in 1897, the same year Hilda was writing her diary in Bismarck. (Edward was quite a bit younger than Hilda.)
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As evidenced by his report card of 1893, Edward was a top student in geography and math; he clearly had drafting skills as well. Although he later went to college to study engineering, he dropped out and became a surveyor, following in his father's footsteps.

Friday, January 30, 2009

Edward's Report Card - 1893

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Edward Wenz - Hilda's future husband, Caroline and Peep's future father - would have been between 7 and 8 when the Perrysburg Public Schools issued this report card. It is signed by his teacher, A. E. Chamberlin, and his father, Ferdinand Wenz.
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Edward or his father seems to have drawn a little map (upside down) at the lower left of the signature side.

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This two-sided report card is about the size of a standard index card.

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Tuesday, January 27, 2009

You Are My Sunshine

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Caroline holding Betsy, October 9, 1955
Inscription:
4+ months, 16 1/4 pounds
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Saturday, January 24, 2009

Just to Look at and Smile of Days Gone By

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Hilda, Lulu, and Florence Satterlund had a lively social life in Bismarck around the turn of the century. Friends often called at their home in Bismarck.

Ben Belk, Cid Taylor, Lulu Satterlund (about age 20), Quinlivan, Flo Gage, Florence Satterlund (about age 18), and Hugh Scott - ca 1900

Back of the photo

On the back of the photo, someone has penned the names of the young men and women posing here. Underneath the ink, in ghostly pencil added decades after the photo was taken, is a note that reads in part, "Wonder where Hugh is and how about Ben."
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The note begins: "Just to look at and smile of days gone by."
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Tuesday, January 20, 2009

President Barack Obama - Celebration at Valois

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On Inauguration Day, January 20, 2009, Betsy, Michael, and David gathered with friends and neighbors at Valois, a local cafeteria and sometime hangout of Barack Obama, now our president!


Ben J, Aaron J, and Michael


Obama - Hyde Park hat

Betsy

David and Michael

Ben, Aaron, and breakfast

President Obama gives his speech.

News cameras and reporters covered the crowd in Valois.

Souvenir mugs from Valois - free with coffee!

Valois owners and staff offered $5 breakfasts to all customers



Joy abounding


Sunday, January 11, 2009

Caroline and the Car - 1954

Caroline, a car, and a man - 1954
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Caroline did not drive. At her first lesson, she plowed her uncle's car into a tree and concluded then that she'd ever remain a pedestrian and a passenger.

Therefore, this is not Caroline's car, nor did she drive it.

The car has 1954 plates. Betsy was born in 1955.

Which man owned this car and elicited this knowing smile? Was it George Phelps, or was it Nathan?

The answer remains in the drawer.

Friday, January 9, 2009

Now Is Now

The last passage of Little House in the Big Woods by Laura Ingalls Wilder.

When the fiddle had stopped singing Laura called out softly, "What are days of auld lang syne, Pa?"

"They are the days of a long time ago, Laura," Pa said. "Go to sleep now."

But Laura lay awake a little while, listening to Pa's fiddle playing and to the lonely sound of the wind in the Big Woods. She looked at Pa sitting on the bench by the hearth, the firelight gleaming on his brown hair and beard and glistening on the honey-brown fiddle. She looked at Ma, gently rocking and knitting.

She thought to herself, "This is now."

She was glad that the cosy house, and Pa and Ma and the firelight and the music, were now. They could not be forgotten, she thought, because now is now. It can never be a long time ago.


Little House in the Big Woods was published in 1932. It told of Laura Ingalls Wilder's memories of life in the Wisconsin woods in 1872.

Saturday, January 3, 2009

Wenz Newz - January 16, 1931

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From 1930-1932, Caroline and Peep produced a lighthearted family newspaper from their home in Perrsyburg. It was called Wenz Newz. They sent it to their relatives in Bismarck, ND - likely to their Auntie Ponce (Florence Satterlund).
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As a young woman, Caroline would become the owner, publisher, reporter, and editor of The Perrysburg Journal along with her mother, Hilda. Wenz Newz, however, marked Caroline's first foray in to journalism, along with her younger sister, Peep.


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The January 16, 1931 issue appeared when Caroline was 14 and Peep, 10. Although Peep ultimately became the artist of the family, Caroline was the "cartoonest." (The Notice on page one reads: We are not responcible for misspelled words published in this paper.)
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Friday, January 2, 2009

Hilda in Perrysburg - Winter 1914

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Hilda and Edward Wenz built a house a few years after their 1911 wedding and subsequent move to Edward's Ohio home town of Perrysburg. Hilda would live in the River Road house until only months before her death in 1970.

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Hilda's note on the back of the postcard photo reads: December 1914. Our faithful watch dog Jojo [?] and me. Have on the pretty & warm cap mama sent and E[dward]'s mackinaw. This shows south windows in living room. The little street car waiting station is just beyond on north west corner. The big trees belong to us.

Hilda and her dog by the Wenzes' new house,
29172 E. River Road, Perrysburg, Ohio - December 1914

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A view of the house in December 1914


Two notes appear on the back of the photo:

December, 1914
The west and south view of our house. The garden is opposite the south (or side) of the house.

Feb. 28 - '67 - Looks much like this today! Notice the woods in background - thinned out now.


Thursday, January 1, 2009

From Hilda's Diary - 1897

Fri. Jan. 1, 1897 Wea. Cold

We are again entering upon another year of uncertainty. We do not know what joys or sorrows we may encounter – although I am quite happy at the present time have been in Bismarck three or four days and have good prospects of a position in the Capitol. ...


This was the first entry in Hilda Satterlund's 1897 diary. She would have been 18 at the time.
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Hilda's 1897 diary - lifesize

Here are a few more entries from January.

Sat. Jan. 2, 1897 Wea. Cold

Still storming – almost as bad as our Thanksgiving Blizzard – although colder I believe. ...

Lulu has been suffering with the tooth ache so her cheek is all swollen.

We had a good splash in the bath tub and feel a few pounds lighter.

Thurs. Jan. 7 1897 Wea. nice

Did some house work and intended going to have a quiet afternoon but papa came up for me to be sworn in to my office as clerk. There were two other ladies besides myself. Met Lieut. Gov. Divine, Senators Haggart, Mansfield and others – do not remember their names.

We got a piano to-night so the girls have been drumming ever since. The Gages came over and played some.

Thurs. Jan. 14, 1897 Wea. nice

Got a machine today so Mary could finish my dress.

I haven’t had to do any work yet at the Cap. Softest snap [?] I ever expect to get.

The “kids” drove me pretty nearly crazy with their racket.

Sat. Jan. 16, 1897 Wea. nice

We did not get up before 8:30 and we had so much to do – never-the-less we washed, baked, swept, cleaned [up?/illegible 2-letter word].

This after noon Mr. Lawrence set me to work – copied one bill – it was very easy but I guess the engrossing [?] will be harder.

Sun. Jan. 17, 1897 Wea. storm

We woke this morning to the fact that a “real” Dakota Blizzard was wielding its rights. (?) Of course we would not think of going to church and thought we would settle down to a nice quiet day – but such scuffling and tumbling as there was!

It would be a great but a pleasant surprise if there was such a thing as getting the girls interested in reading – especially Florence.


Tues. Jan. 19, 1897 Wea. nice

Went into the House and visited – I had to stand up and I tell you I loomed up beautifully – around me it seemed as though it was the shortest set of people that I have every noticed in a crowd or else I did not fully realize that I was so “awfully” tall.

Papa said that Mr. Peterson was in the Hospital taking the Kelley cure – a good thing.

Thurs. Jan. 21, 1897 Wea. windy

Did house work and in the evening we went down to the G.A.R. Hall to a Baptist Social. The wind blew so hard that we could hardly go down, but I hung on to Johnnie. The entertainment was fine – “Ma Sweet and her seven daughters.” The coffee was fine, as was also the cake.

Fri. Jan. 22, 1897 Wea. cold

The wind still continues to blow. Should have gone down to Mrs. Dixon’s to study up my shorthand.

Sun. Jan. 24, 1897 Wea. bliz.

Another large blizzard this morning. Did not have breakfast till 11 o’clock. Read very nearly all day. I read some of “Ourselves and Others” by Trumbull – it was fine!


[Ourselves and Others: Or Personality and Intercourse by H. Clay Trumbull, Philadelphia, John D. Wattles, Publisher, 1889, appears to be a 19th century version of a popular psychology book.]

NOTES:

  • Hilda Satterlund, Betsy's maternal grandmother, had moved into the family house in Bismarck, ND with her two younger sisters, while her parents, John and Charlotte Satterlund, remained in Washburn with their youngest child, Floyd “Bud.” Washburn is 40 miles north of Bismarck. John Satterlund was a powerful figure in the region and apparently used his influence to help Hilda get a job working in the state capitol. Hilda, 18, was in charge of sisters Lulu, 16, and Florence, 14.
  • See the final entry in Hilda's diary in this blog entry.
  • See Hilda's Diary, a blog in "real time," posting an entry each day from Hilda's 1897 diary between January 1 and July 15, 2009 -- at least this is my goal. BR

S.S. = Sunday school



Monday, December 29, 2008

You Are My Sunshine!

Alice - ca 1966

Alice is Betsy's cousin, and Peep's youngest daughter. This Polaroid photo was probably taken by her father, George.


Sunday, December 28, 2008

Maria Elizabeth Setterlund - John Satterlund's Mother

An obituary of John Satterlund's mother, Maria Elizabeth. John's parents, Maria Elizabeth (Mary) and Erick Setterlund, were born in Sweden and came to the US in 1870. The older settlers seem to have spelled their name with an "e" but the younger ones used an "a."

Transcribed from Wheaton [MN] Footprints - June 12, 1903

Mrs. Maria Elizabeth Setterlund, one of Traverse County's oldest settlers and mother of Alfred Setterlund died Sunday, June 7th [1903], at 4:00 o'clock p.m. at her home in his city from a stroke of paralysis.

Deceased was a native of Sweden and was born on February 16th, 1823, making her over eighty years of age. She was married there and came to this country with her husband in 1870, settling at Duluth, where they resided until 1880, when they came to Traverse County, taking a homestead in Clifton. Being among the very first settlers in the county, they underwent many privations and hardships incident to pioneer days, but the latchstring was always out and open handed hospitality the rule in the Setterlund household.

Six children survive her viz: Mrs Erika Loffness of Missola [Ericka Loffnes of Missoula], Alfred, Otto and Miss Johanna of this place and John and Mrs. Mary Larson of Bismarck.

The funeral was held Tuesday Rev. E. Schold officiating and she was laid to rest in the Monson cemetery beside her husband, who had preceeded [sic] her some eleven years.

Thanks to Tracey Baker - like Betsy a great-great granddaughter of Maria Elizabeth Setterlund - for sending a copy of the obituary.

Thursday, December 25, 2008

Hilda's Christmas - 1959

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Here is Hilda Satterlund Wenz in 1959, visiting her grandchildren, Anne, Dorothy, and Teddy Abraham in Washington, DC. Duke joins the group!

Peep's Cards at Christmas

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Each year, Peep made a new Abraham Christmas card, featuring her own drawings and calligraphy intermingled with photos of her children.
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Peep was an artist. Her real name was Hilda Wenz Abraham. She was the younger daughter of Hilda Satterlund Wenz; sister of Caroline; wife of George; mother of Teddy, Dorothy, Anne, and Alice; aunt of Betsy. To everyone else, she was Hilda; to her family of origin and to Betsy, she was always Peep.
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Below: Front, inside, and back of a trifold Christmas card by Peep, likely 1960... half a year before her youngest child, Alice, was born.


Today, the large wooden bear - an umbrella rack -
stands guard in Alice's Massachusetts home.
The bear was passed down from the home of her paternal great-grandfather, George Jacoby. Alice reports "dancing" with this bear when she was small.

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Below: Front and back + inside of Peep's 1964 card, showing Teddy, Dorothy, Alice, and Anne plus Duke and the family camper that traveled all over the US.


A Swedish heart hangs from the branch under Anne's name. Little Alice would learn to make Swedish hearts out of satin ribbons or colored paper.


Saturday, December 20, 2008

Mischa

This is my father.


Sunday, December 14, 2008

Caroline Joins the WAVES


Caroline Wenz
Officer in the WAVES, USNR
1940s

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At the end of 1942, Caroline was 26 years old and a teacher in Perrysburg, Ohio. With her mother, Hilda S. Wenz, she was also co-owner of the weekly newspaper, The Perrysburg Journal. Everyone admired Caroline as the teacher, the newspaper publisher, and the devoted daughter. She seemed rooted in small-town Ohio life.
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Then she surprised everyone. The United States had entered World War II, and like other people, Caroline followed the war effort closely. In 1943, word got around Perrysburg that one of the schoolteachers had joined the WAVES (Women Accepted for Volunteer Emergency Service) in the US Naval Reserve. Which teacher could have joined the Navy?
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Caroline’s lifelong friend, the vivacious Betty Kuehn Parke, recalled in a 2004 letter:

Everyone in Perrysburg was absolutely sure it was bubbly outgoing Betty Kuehn [who had signed up]—oh no [it was not I]—but quiet scholarly Caroline! I had not the courage or fortitude to do such a ‘wild & crazy thing.’ Never - never would I have even considered it—but Caroline – yes!
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Timeline: Caroline in the WAVES
From Caroline's scrapbook

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Caroline went off to officers' training school at Smith College in Massachusetts. Then, she was stationed in Seattle, Washington, where she was an ensign and later a lieutenant in Naval Communications. Because the work was confidential, Caroline could not tell others what she did, other than to say it involved codes and communications.
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In her many letters home, Caroline spoke mostly of her leisure time, which she spent on sewing projects and reading, and going with sister officers to movies, church services, and day trips in the area. She also spoke of her great concern about her mother and sister’s well-being and assured them she was fine.

From Caroline's scrapbook

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Although the WAVES worked long and hard—in shifts around the clock--they did not see military action. Caroline did write in one letter:

Prepare to be amazed—I am learning to shoot a pistol in 6 easy lessons. [A] number of WAVES do carry special… dispatches and do carry pistols… Today we go down on the police range so I am preparing to be deafened. If I hit the target I will be quite surprised.

Years after, Caroline told Betsy she had indeed delivered a secret message, though she never had occasion to use her pistol.

Sunday, November 30, 2008

King John Escapes Death

According to the October 10, 1919 Hansboro News in North Dakota:

  • Washburn - John Satterlund, well known throughout the state, narrowly escaped death from a falling drill stem at his coal mine near here a short time ago. The implement, weighing 400 pounds, fell in such a way as to strike him a glancing blow, inflicting painful but not fatal injuries.

Monday, November 24, 2008

As If I Had Met My Younger Self

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How does it feel to visit a place that used to be your home?

Nancy emailed me about her recent trip to the college town she lived in 25 years back:


We visited the house we lived in senior year, and the owners let us come in and visit. It was oddly amazing to me to see things that are pretty much the same as when I was in college --
as if I expected that that whole world had ceased to exist because I was no longer there, or as if I expected it would have progressed as much toward the end of its life as I have. I was almost as awe-struck as if I had met my younger self, still living there in South Hadley.

-- Nancy

Nancy and Betsy have known each other for 19 years.

Sunday, November 23, 2008

Charlotte C. Peterson Marries John Satterlund

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Charlotte C. Peterson married John Satterlund on June 18, 1877 in Duluth, Minnesota.


Newlyweds John and Charlotte (Peterson) Satterlund - 1877

Printed on the back of the photo

Their marriage was recorded in the St. Louis County, Minnesota Marriage Index, Book 1, page 268.

John and Charlotte would go on to have 5 children, one of whom died in childhood. John Satterlund became a mover and shaker in North Dakota.
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Ultimately, Charlotte and a grown daughter, Lulu, moved to California, and John lived the rest of his days alone in North Dakota.

Just Charlotte

Someone reprinted the wedding photo of John and Charlotte but cut away John.
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To read more about the Satterlunds, visit Prairie Public.

Saturday, November 22, 2008

Ericka Satterlund Loffnes

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Peter C. and Ericka (Satterlund) Loffnes & their children
Montana, 1880s
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Ericka Satterlund was a sister of John Satterlund. She was among the children of Erick and Mary (Rudberg) Satterlund, who emigrated from Sweden to the United States sometime between 1867 and 1871. She was born in around 1846.

On September 9, 1872, Ericka married Peter C. Loffnes in Duluth. Peter was probably born in Norway (source). Their marriage was recorded in the St. Louis County, Minnesota Marriage Index, Book 1, page 82.
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Later, Ericka and Peter settled in Missoula, Montana. They had 3 children, one of whom likely grew up to be Peter F. Loffnes, who served as fire chief in Missoula from 1912-1919.
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Peter F. Loffnes, likely the son of Peter and Ericka Loffnes
Driving a fire engine
Source: University of Montana, Mansfield Library

Some more information about the Loffnes family:

  • Ericka Satterlund Loffnes died on January 24, 1919 and is buried in the Missoula Cemetery. She was 72.
  • Peter C. Loffnes lived from 1847-1935. His death at age 88 is recorded in the Idaho Death Index, which states that he died in Coeur D'Alene, Idaho. He may have been visiting his daughter Amanda at the time of his death. He is buried with other members of his family in the Missoula Cemetery.
  • In 1886, Peter C. Loffnes bought a homestead in Burleigh County, ND, indicating that the family probably spent some time in North Dakota and that he and his relatives by marriage, the Satterlunds, probably remained in touch (Burleigh County, ND Bureau of Land Management records). Census records indicate that the Loffnes family (misspelled as Loffness) was back in Missoula, MT in 1900 (source).
  • Amelia Loffnes, one of the daughters, must have gone into business, for she belonged to the Montana Federation of Business and Professional Women's Clubs between 1919 and 1928. She died in 1961 and is buried in the Missoula Cemetery. She was born in about 1879 in North Dakota, so the family must have moved there by then (source).
  • Amanda Loffnes, another daughter, is buried in the Missoula Cemetery. She was born on May 21, 1876 and died on May 15, 1968. It appears she was born in Minnesota (source). Although she is buried in Missoula with her family, the Social Security death index indicates that her last residence was in Coeur D'Alene, Idaho.
  • Apparently, neither Amelia nor Amanda ever married, as their last name remained Loffnes.
  • Son Peter F. Loffnes, as indicated above, served as Missoula fire chief. In 1907, he was president of the Switchman's Union in Missoula, Jumbo Lodge. He died at age 46 in 1930 and is buried in Missoula Cemetery. He was born in 1884 in North Dakota (source).
  • An Alzona Enderlein Loffnes is also buried in the Missoula Cemetery; records indicate she died in 1942 at age 76. Her name appears as Alzone and Alzene in various sources. Perhaps as a young widow she married older widower Peter C. Loffnes. She may have been some other relative. (Peter appears to be buried next to Ericka.)
  • There is a John M. Satterlund buried in the Missoula Cemetery. He died at age 42 in 1936, meaning he would have been born around 1894. Could he have been a relation to Ericka, perhaps a nephew?

NOTE: The family photo at top was labeled by Mabel Schonert, daughter of Mary Satterlund Larson. Mary Satterlund Larson was the sister of both Ericka Satterlund and John Satterlund.

Thursday, November 20, 2008

Betsy and June - 35 years ago

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Betsy and June - October 28, 1973
Polaroid photo by Caroline

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In fall 1973, Betsy was a sophomore at Grinnell College and June at Oberlin. They must have come back to Chicago for Columbus Day weekend. I am wearing a red quilted bathrobe that Mom made for me.
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June and Betsy first met in nursery school in the Lincoln Park neighborhood. Caroline was June's teacher and Betsy was in the other class. They would not see each other again until they were teenagers.

As a high school sophomore, June transferred to Lab School in Hyde Park, where Betsy had gone to school since first grade. Eventually, both girls would end up at University of Michigan.
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They remain friends today!

Saturday, November 15, 2008

Susan, Sarah, Betsy

Sarah, Betsy, and Susan were a threesome, starting in 4th grade. Betsy and Susan met in 1st grade at Lab School in 1961. Betsy and Sarah met in 2nd grade, when Sarah's family had just moved to Chicago from Queens, NY.
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We are all still friends, though we live in different places: San Francisco, Chicago, and Madison.

Sarah, Betsy, Susan - Indiana Dunes, 1972
Photo: Joe Smith (Susan's father)

In the picture below, Sarah and Susan are holding books being given away by Betsy. Sarah is holding one that appears to be the paperback version of The Autobiography of Malcolm X. Betsy was cleaning out her room right before going to college, while her parents were packing to move to a new apartment.
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Soon after the photo was taken, Sarah went off to Earlham College, Susan to Oberlin, and Betsy to Grinnell. They were only 17 because Lab School, in those days, combined 7th and 8th grade into a single year, so kids graduated a year earlier than at any other school.

Sarah and Susan - August 1972
University Apartments, Hyde Park, Chicago
Photo: Betsy


In 1974, the girls were sophomores in college. In this picture, Betsy and Susan must have been home for spring break.
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Betsy and Susan - March 1974
Polaroid by Caroline

Friday, November 14, 2008

The Zesmers


Sarah and Betsy met in Miss Carter's second grade class. Eventually, their parents became friends, too.

David + Sue Zesmer, Mischa + Caroline Rubin
By Zesmers' vacation home in Michigan, 1991

Sue and David Zesmer and Caroline and Mischa Rubin remained lifelong friends. Together they made an annual pilgrimage to Stratford, Ontario, where they feasted on Shakespeare plays and discussed them over donuts and coffee.

In 1995, the Zesmers came and sat with Caroline and Betsy while Mischa lay dying. Sue remained a close friend of Caroline's, even when Alzheimer's took away Caroline's ability to converse in words. In 1995, David gave Mischa's eulogy and 10 years later, Sue gave the eulogy at Caroline's memorial service.

Decades earlier, Caroline took this Polaroid photo of Sue (Sarah's mother) and Jennie (Sarah's sister).

Sue Z and Jennie Z - December 1973

Betsy's friendship with Sarah is long and deep. Betsy took this 1972 photo of Sarah looking very Sarah-ish.

Sarah - 1972

Sarah and her big sister, Jennie, were born in Queens, NY. Here they are, about four years before they moved to Chicago. This picture was taken in the few years of my life that I didn't know Sarah!

Sarah and Jennie, Queens, NY - ca 1958

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Amy, Betsy, and The Kids

In August 1972, Amy came down from the North Side to help Betsy pack her room. Betsy was about to go off to Grinnell College, and her parents were getting ready to move. Some of Betsy's favorite postcards still hung on the bookcase: The Song of the Lark by Jules Breton and Nighthawks by Edward Hopper. Amy posed for a photo with Marcella, a dearly loved doll that Caroline made for Betsy when she was about 3.

Amy with Betsy's doll Marcella - 1972
Helping Betsy pack
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Amy and Betsy met in Miss Carter's class at Lab School in 1962. Throughout elementary school, their friendship centered around make-believe games. They played with Amy's collection of model horses - Brown-Brown, Snorton, Creamy, Rosa, Roxanne and Rosalind, and others. They pretended they were the orphans Renie and Jennifer. They acted out stories with a little china kitten (Kitty) and furry toy mouse (Mousie).
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Likely influenced by Harriet the Spy, they created the Private Eye Club (PEC) and spied on workmen taking their break from building a townhouse development, The Gardens, which Amy's family would move into later. Their notes included:

Men seen playing poker. Might be suspishous.
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The longest-lasting game was The Kids. Betsy and Amy each had a family of imaginary children. Betsy and Amy's role in the Kids' lives was never precisely defined; they were not the Kids' mothers but something akin to foster parents. Betsy's kids included Jimmy, Jean, Chester, Johnny, Sally, Dandy, and Michael. (Dandy was the nickname of Jennifer.) Later, more kids joined the family.

Amy's Kids were all girls, because, she says now, "I couldn't draw boys." They were Linda, Caroline, Louisa May (Louise), May Louisa (May) and Suzy. These girls had a set of redheaded cousins too.
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From ages 8 until about 12, Betsy and Amy engaged in pretend play around the Kids. On Field Day, we found a hidden nook by one of the school buildings and had a picnic with the Kids instead of participating in outdoor sports with our classmates.
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Amy and Betsy drew dozens of pictures of the Kids, on into the early years of high school, after Amy's family had moved to Lincoln Park and long after the girls had stopped the pretend play.
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Amy once gave Betsy one of her pictures, a simple sketch. Amy's other pictures were richly detailed and in color.


Suzy (?) with horse
Sketch by Amy, ca 1966
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Below are the very first pictures Betsy drew of her Kids. They show Jean and Johnny. I remember drawing these first pictures at Amy's townhouse on 55th Street.

. Johnny Sitting
Drawing by Betsy, 1964
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At age 8, I had just realized that people had calves - that their legs curved - and I was excited to depict this feature in the drawing of Jean.

Jean at the Window
Drawing by Betsy, 1964

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Although Betsy and Amy went to different high schools and started out at different colleges, they remained friends. In their junior year, Betsy transferred from Grinnell College to the University of Michigan, where Amy had been all along. They both lived in Chicago in their post-college years, but Amy eventually moved away.
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Amy and Betsy are still friends, though they live hundreds of miles apart.

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In the picture of Johnny, drawn in 1964, he is wearing a shirt and overalls that were modeled on my own early childhood clothes. I remembered those clothes well because my doll Marcella wore them long after I grew out of them myself. Marcella is even wearing them in the 1972 photograph of Amy holding her [see photo, top of entry]. In my mind, those worn and comfy clothes conjured up childhood innocence and freedom.

Sunday, November 9, 2008

Hyde Park by Gregg Fraley

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The Point

Mural

Gregg Fraley took these photos in the fall of 2004.




Tuesday, November 4, 2008

President Obama - Vella's Message

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We came home from celebrating PRESIDENT BARACK OBAMA with joy and tears at the home of our neighbors and friends. We spoke by phone with our children, our cousins, our last living parent, our dear friends. I wanted to call Vella but feared it was too late at night. It wasn't. Vella had left a message, weeping, on our voicemail:

I'm sorry to call you this late, but I just want to say...

Thank you, thank you, this is wonderful, it's really wonderful.

I'm so happy for him! We won, yes we won!

And I'm not going to hold any longer, I just want to say thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you!

And God bless everybody. Thank you. Bye.


Even though it was late, I called Vella back and we gave thanks together for the new hope for our nation and all our people, for Barack Obama's victory and for his call for shared purpose and shared sacrifice, for a future of justice, unity, and the hope of peace. Thank you!

Monday, November 3, 2008

Hope for Tomorrow

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A Little Girl’s Poem
By Gwendolyn Brooks

Life is for me and is shining!
Inside me I
Feel stars and sun and bells singing.

There are children in the world
all around me and beyond me—
here, and beyond the big waters;
here, and in countries peculiar to me
but not peculiar to themselves.

I want the children to live and to laugh.
I want them to sit with their mothers
and fathers
and have happy cocoa together.

I do not want
fire screaming up to the sky.
I do not want
families killed in their doorways.

Life is for us, for the children.
Life is for mothers and fathers,
life is for the tall girls and boys
in the high school on Henderson Street,
is for the people in Afrikan tents,

the people in English cathedrals,
the people in Indian courtyards;
the people in cottages all over the world.

Life is for us, and is shining. We have a right to sing.

Monday, October 20, 2008

Betsy and Alice B. - January 1975


Polaroid photo by Caroline, January 1975
Converted to black and white

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Betsy and Alice B. met in 1973 at Grinnell College in Iowa , when both were sophomores there. They remain friends today in Chicago. People used to ask if we were twins.


Betsy and Alice, Labor Day weekend, 2007

Sunday, October 19, 2008

Make Me an Instrument of Your Peace

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Vella Williams with her sons, ca 1962
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Vella has a card with a prayer of Saint Francis of Assisi. She said, "I have carried this with me for years and years. I always read it. I was meant to have it always. When my purse got stolen, they took the money but they left this card. It was still in my purse when I got it back."

Front and back of Vella's St. Francis prayer card


Caroline and Vella, ca 1997

Saturday, October 18, 2008

I Can Fly - Little Golden Books

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In the 1940s and 1950s, Little Golden Books had cardboard covers and gold foil spines, and sold for about a quarter. Many had lyrical text and arty illustrations by first-rate authors and illustrators. I Can Fly, by Ruth Krauss, was a favorite of Caroline and Betsy's.

On the bookplate, printed onto the inside cover, Caroline wrote that the book belonged to "Betsy to help her remember nursery school days." Perhaps this was a book that was used as a springboard for activities at the Lincoln Park nursery school, where Caroline taught when Betsy was a 3- and 4-year-old student there.

It's certainly a book one could easily act out. Here is the text:

A bird can fly.
So can I.
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A cow can moo.
I can too.
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I can squirm
like a worm
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I can grab
like a crab
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Crunch crunch crunch
I'm a goat out to lunch
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Who's busy like a bee?
Me me me.
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Who can walk like a bug?
Me! Ug ug.
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I'm merrier
than a terrier.
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Swish!
I'm a fish.
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Pick pick pick
I'm a little chick.
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Who can live in a hole?
Me! Like a mole.
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Who can climb anywhere?
Me! Like a bear.
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My house is
like a mouse's.
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A clam
is what I am.
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Pop pop pop
I'm a rabbit with a hop.
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Bump bump bump
I'm a camel with a hump.
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Haw haw haw
I'm a donkey in the straw.
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Pitter pitter pat
I can walk like a cat.
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Howl howl howl
I'm an old screech owl.
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Gubble gubble gubble
I'm a mubble in a pubble
I can play
I'm anything that's anything.
That's MY way.
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Golden Books continue to be published into the 21st century. The new stories tend to be less artful, but many original titles, including I Can Fly, continue to be reprinted. Betsy read this same story to her children when they were little.
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Ruth Krauss, the author of I Can Fly, wrote many other children's books, including The Carrot Seed and A Very Special House. In 1968, Caroline herself worked with Ruth Krauss on her book The Little King, the Little Queen, the Little Monster and Other Stories You Can Make Up Yourself, published by Albert Whitman and Company, where Caroline was editor in chief.
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Well into her 80s, long after dementia had taken most of her words, Caroline still remembered I Can Fly. When presented with celery or some other crunchy food, she'd say mischievously, "Crunch, crunch, crunch, I'm a goat out to lunch!"

Friday, September 19, 2008

The Kaplans

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Lucy, expecting Martha - ca 1957
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Lucy and Lawrence (then known as "Lucy and Larry") were neighbors and friends of Caroline and Betsy in Lincoln Park. They had been married a long time but had not yet had children. They once babysat for toddler Betsy, and Caroline came home to discover they had put her pajamas on backwards! This misstep did not deter them, and soon they went on to have three daughters of their own. Years later, Lucy said, "Caroline gave me the courage to have children."

Emily, Martha, Beth - 1964
In the backyard of their house at the Seminary, Lincoln Park, Chicago
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In 1965, the Kaplans moved to Newton Centre, near Boston. The house has a front parlor and a back parlor.

Lucy, Lawrence and the girls,
Front parlor, house in Newton Centre, MA, 1965
A caption by this photo reads, "That's not Dean Rusk, that's our papa!"
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The kitchen in Newton Centre has a massive round oak table in the center, often covered with berries and vegetables from the garden. Spices and iron pots and pans are on the wall. Painted crockery holds the cooked food. It is the place Betsy first heard National Public Radio.

Betsy with Beth, Emily, Martha (in back), ca 1971

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Today, Betsy's daughter and Martha's daughters are friends.

Sunday, September 14, 2008

Betsy's Daughter Scans Herself - 2006


Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Caroline and the Fairies


This watercolor of Caroline as an infant was probably painted by Caroline's father, Edward. It is based on Caroline's first photo, taken in 1916. On other parts of the paper, there is another watercolor of Caroline as a young child and an unfinished sketch of Peep as a chubby baby.


Saturday, August 30, 2008

Mischa - Administrator and Idealist

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Mischa, 1945-6, when the agency was at the Merchandise Mart in Chicago

After Mischa graduated from the University of Chicago Law School, he had trouble finding work during the Great Depression. He tried private practice but was unable to make a go of it. Eventually, he accepted a job with the state of Illinois, where he worked for what became the Bureau of Employment Security.

A group of colleagues from the Bureau, likely in the late 1940s. Mischa is at the right.
To his immediate right is Ted Robinson.
The woman at the far left of the photo may be Gertrude Gendel.

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At Mischa's memorial service in 1995, a colleague of his, Maurice Cohen, said that Mischa had "applied his extraordinary intellect and skills to the legislative and policy aspects of the Unemployment Insurance Program" at the state of Illinois.


Another colleague and friend, Jack Cohen (no relation to Maurice) wrote to Caroline in 1995:
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We met more than half a century ago. We were fortunate to be vital participants in the birth and growth of the Unemployment Compensation program. While both Mischa and I dealt with the legal and administrative aspects of the agency, he had the broader perspective.

He became its conscience. He had deep empathy with the trauma and devastating effect that the loss of a job had upon the person who stood in line to claim the check that would temporarily sustain him and his family.

He built into the foundation of the program constant awareness by our staff that would help assure that we would serve the jobless so as not to diminish their dignity and self respect.

When we reflect upon what legacy we leave after we are gone, Mischa had every reason to be proud of his.
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Mischa and his colleagues were united by idealism and commitment to the cause.
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Mischa ultimately attained the position of Assistant Commissioner of Employment Security for the State of Illinois, retiring on April 30, 1975. For many years afterward, he served on advisory boards and was consulted by the state.

Friday, August 29, 2008

Strength and Beauty

Monday, August 25, 2008

More Memories of 1633 Melrose

Florence Satterlund
From Caroline's Seattle scrapbook
A few years before Irene's story takes place.
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From St. Paul, Irene, a grandniece of John Satterlund and a cousin once removed of Florence Satterlund writes:

I was in Auntie Flo's apartment several times as Earl and I lived in Seattle for over three years and our first son Mark was born May 5, 1950. Auntie Flo was my surrogate mom. In my late pregnancy, she drove me to a beautiful outlook scene where we parked and had crackers and tea.

When Mark came home she helped me bathe him and make formula. When my girlfriend stopped over en route to Hawaii, Flo made us a delicious soup from clams she had dug. She loved to salmon fish in Puget Sound and one day became ill. Then it was my turn.


She requested I cook a lamb roast, and while my husband watched our son on weekends, I ironed her linens in that apartment and wrote letters to her farm renters near Washburn. My father often checked on these farms for her. We got Flo on the train to Bismarck when she decided she could no longer cope in that apartment.

Irene's twin sister Inez also remembers:

That is the apartment she called my mother from and asked if she could locate an apartment for her here in Bismarck and help her in her late years. She loved family, was a very independent person and had her ups and downs but we so enjoyed having her close to all of our family over the many years. When she had her stroke and heart attack, she begged me to take over, which I did in spite of having a family and parents to care for.

Inez added:

She always wanted to see you, Betsy, and loved hearing from your mother and all and any news of you!


I know her through Inez and Irene's stories, Caroline's letters, Florence's own photos and albums, and the ring she left me. I know by turning the doorknob of the closet in her Seattle apartment, 1633 Melrose.


An older photo (ca 1920?) pasted into
Caroline's Seattle scrapbook.
Did Florence visit Seattle once before moving there later in life?

Sunday, August 24, 2008

Auntie Ponce's Apartment - 1633 Melrose #104, Seattle

In Seattle on vacation, Betsy and Michael visited the building in which Betsy's Great-Aunt Florence Satterlund had lived in the 1940s. The building manager invited them in and they got to see the very apartment in which Florence - Auntie Ponce - had lived.

Betsy visiting 1633 Melrose, Seattle - July 2008

While serving in the WAVES during WWII, Caroline was stationed in Seattle. She often visited with Auntie Ponce and even stayed in her apartment with her friend Jean when the war ended and they had to leave the WOQ - WAVES Officer Quarters.

Caroline with Auntie Ponce in Seattle, 1944-45

Caroline wrote about the apartment in a letter to a friend she typed while on duty in September 1945.


Michael near the front entrance to the building


From the main entrance to the vestibule

The apartment was one small room with a tiny kitchen, a small bathroom, and a large closet.


Inside the apartment

The windows now look out on a busy highway that did not then exist.

The kitchen and bath

Caroline and Auntie Ponce both took baths in this tub!

It so happened that the apartment was vacant in July 2008-our good fortune.



Friday, August 22, 2008

Mischa, Marion, Martha Jane

This picture of Martha Jane always stood in its own little stand on top of Mischa's dresser. Mischa did not meet Martha Jane until she was a teenager - when he married her mother, Marion. However, this image of Martha Jane (Marty) as a toddler had special meaning for him.

Martha Jane, ca 1932

Martha Jane in Chicago, around the time Mischa married her mother, Marion

Mischa and Marion were happily married. They had many friends, had lively conversations about books and politics, enjoyed parties, music, dancing, and going out.

Marion and Mischa dining at the Swiss Chalet at the Bismarck Hotel in Chicago's Loop.
This photo was made into a souvenir postcard by the hotel.

Marion died suddenly in 1959 or 1960, and Mischa was devastated. His friends helped him through that time, as did Martha Jane's nearly daily letters from Spain. He may have stayed a while with his friends Ibi and Laci. Back at his apartment on Blackstone and 55th Street, his neighbors "the Mary's" - two ladies named Mary who lived together - taught him how to broil steaks for himself, and he learned to manage.


Mischa later married Caroline and enjoyed a deeply happy but very different marriage. It seems that each of these women was the love of his life.

Thanks to Topher for the photos of Marty.
See more photos at Topher's site.

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

The Jeromes

This picture of Michelle and Beth stood in the Rubin household. Michelle was named after Mischa. She was his first grandchild, and Beth was his second. Polly came along later, then Jenny and Topher.

Michelle and Beth - ca 1957


Michelle and Beth's mother was Marty - always called Martha Jane by Mischa. Martha Jane came into Mischa's life when he married her mother, Marion.
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Mischa's wife Marion died suddenly when her daughter, Marty, was a young woman. Marty, her husband Judson, and their three daughters were getting ready to go to Spain for a year. Marty hesitated to go, knowing the agony Mischa was enduring over Marion's death, but Mischa told her she must not miss this opportunity. So Marty went, but she wrote to Mischa nearly every day, and he saved all her letters.


Michelle, Polly, and Beth with Martha Jane (Marty) in Spain

Mischa always remained in close touch with Marty and the children, even after he had happily married Caroline and established a family with her and Betsy. Mischa, Caroline, and Betsy often visited the family at their home in Yellow Springs, Ohio.

Jenny

Betsy holding Topher during a visit to Yellow Springs, ca 1967

The Jeromes left Yellow Springs to move out east, though Marty and Jud later moved back. The family suffered the losses of two loved ones. When Mischa himself died in 1995, four members of the family were able to come to Chicago for the memorial service. Michelle was one of the readers at the service; she spoke of the importance of Grandpa in her life.


Polly, Martha Jane, Michelle, and Topher
In Chicago for Mischa's memorial service - 1995

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Twelve years later, Martha Jane (Marty) died in Anacortes, Washington, surrounded by her children and grandchildren.

Beth, Michelle, Polly, Topher - July 2008


In July 2008, Beth, Michelle, Polly, Topher, and Betsy were reunited on a ferry ride from Anacortes, Washington to San Juan Island. It was a day of joy.

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Thanks to Topher for the photos of the girls in Spain; Jenny; and Betsy with himself as a toddler. See more photos at Topher's site.

Saturday, August 9, 2008

San Juan Islands - 1945, 2008



Ferry to San Juan Islands, Washington

July 2008: Reunion with the Jeromes


When Caroline was stationed in Seattle as a WAVES officer in the
US Navy in WWII, she took a ferry trip to the San Juan Islands with WAVES friends, 1945.
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Here is a page from her photo album.
The color picture in the album is a postcard; the others are snapshots.


In a September 1945 letter to a friend, Caroline described her trip:

Saturday, July 19, 2008

Caroline, Editor and Mentor

Caroline, editor and mentor, at Albert Whitman & Co
With Kathy Tucker, 1978


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Caroline at Albert Whitman & Company
By Kathy Tucker Brooks, Editor - May 2005


(In 1977,) when I began working at Albert Whitman, the company was housed in an old building on West Lake Street in Chicago. The editorial offices, which were two desks separated by a partition, were on the 6th floor.

To get there one took a rickety elevator, which was kept locked to discourage visitors who might wander up from the street. Periodically the Lake Street elevated train thundered right alongside the building; then conversation came to a complete stop.

It was a dusty and dirty place. Sometimes there were mice. Occasionally the landlord did not pay his bills and the heat was turned off.

But this was an editor’s office, and from the day she got there, September 5, 1961, Caroline gave it dignity. Every Monday morning, she dusted and straightened up. She had decorated the office with her sister’s lovely watercolors; occasionally, she put up seasonal decorations like colored-paper leaves or snowflakes.

She took good care of the tools of her trade: the unabridged Oxford dictionary, a fine IBM Selectric (correcting) typewriter, a large drawing board, pica rulers, type books, a good collection of rub-down type, jars of rubber cement. (There was a large metal cupboard with 12 shelves, perfect for keeping large pieces of art flat and safe. She was pleased that she’d procured this—she’d found it in a warehouse, I think, and gotten the men to lug it up to the office.)

And of course, there was the slush pile—the manuscripts sent, unsolicited, by hopeful writers. Out of this pile (about 800) and using her own wits, Caroline had to come up with about sixteen books a year for the company to publish. These books had to make enough money to pay the rent, the printing bills, and the salaries of about ten employees.

She was pretty much a one-woman show. There was usually an editorial assistant, but there was no secretary, no designer, no production person. So in addition to generating exciting ideas for projects or culling good manuscripts out of the slush pile—jobs properly editorial— she also designed and produced the books.

She chose the artists, directed them through sketches and final art, selected the type (she especially loved choosing typefaces) ordered it from typesetters, proofread and ordered corrections, and ultimately—and I remember this especially because it was so time-consuming and because today all this is done on the computer—she pasted up the mechanicals.

This meant she pasted down the “repro copy” in the exact position it was to appear on the page. If she pasted a paragraph heading downhill, it would be printed that way. Sometimes if she found a little mistake (an E instead of an I) she would cut out the offending letter with her trusty exacto knife and glue down another one precisely in its place.

This kind of work might give someone a headache, but Caroline liked it—not surprising, as she was a person who also loved to sew and to hang wallpaper. But while Caroline found even the minutiae of publishing enjoyable and interesting, she was very well focused on the big picture.

Working with author Gertrude Chandler Warner, she edited the Boxcar Children series, which the company had purchased from Scott Foresman. Caroline worked on 13 Boxcar stories, until Miss Warner died in 1979. I think the plots of the last books, when Gertrude Warner was in very poor health, were greatly influenced by Mrs. Rubin.

While Caroline was editor, the Boxcar Children was the bread and butter of the company, and along with the many subsequent books in the series, today it still serves not only to support AW but more important, entertain and teach millions of children all over the world. Caroline had her very own ideas, too, and they were great.

Together with author Norma Simon and artist Joe Lasker, Caroline began a series of books that became known on the AW list as “concept books.” These were books that would focus on the feelings and problems of children, in a confirming and comforting way.

BENJI’S BIRD, about a child who has to adjust to a natural loss, was quickly followed by SEE THE FIRST STAR, a story about a little boy who needed glasses. Subsequent titles were WHAT DO I DO? And WHAT DO I SAY? — simple stories of daily life that helped children identify actions and feelings.

The idea that children’s feelings, sometimes negative, should be affirmed before they can be affected, seems like very basic psychology today. But in the late sixties seventies these were new ideas, and the books Caroline developed for the Concept series were greatly welcomed by teachers, librarians and families. Many are still in print today.

Perhaps the best known is ALL KINDS OF FAMILIES, written by Norma Simon and illustrated by Joe Lasker. In this classic, loving families of all kinds are described, including a family whose dad is in jail. Since its publication in 1976, it has sold about more than 120,000 copies, all in hardback, and it is still going strong.

Caroline wanted to include children from all backgrounds, races, and cultures in the Albert Whitman books. It was her idea to make Mary Jo, the heroine of WHAT MARY JO SHARED, a black child. The power of this story is that it isn’t about the fact that Mary Jo is African American. The story is about a little girl who wants something unique to share with the other children at school, and comes up with the terrific idea of bringing her dad.

There were many, many other books as well. There were lots by creative Midwest people, for Caroline felt authors and artists in the Midwest was often unfairly overshadowed by the New York publishing world. There were mysteries by Florence Parry Heide and Roxanne Heide. Stories about daily life, like SURPRISE FOR MRS. BURNS by Glennette Turner and DAYS I LIKE, by Lucy Hawkinson. Stories about the past, like WHEN GRANDPA WORE KNICKERS by Fern Brown. Sports stories, like GOAL TO GO by Mike Neigoff.

There were how-to art books, like The I CAN’T DRAW BOOK, by Jerry Warshaw, COLLECT, PRINT, AND PAINT FROM NATURE by John Hawkinson. There were riddle books by Ann Bishop, also illustrated by Jerry Warshaw.

Although Caroline didn’t care much for fantasy, she made an exceptions for THE LITTLE OLD MAN WHO COOKED AND CLEANED and THE LITTLE OLD MAN WHO COULD NOT READ, silly stories by Irma Simonton Black, illustrated by Seymour Fleishman, and THE ONLY GLUP MAKER IN THE U.S. NAVY by Tom McGowen, SNOW ON BEAR’S NOSE, by Jennifer Bartoli and THE LITTLE BOY WHO LOVED DIRT AND ALMOST BECAME A SUPERSLOB by Judith Vigna.

Caroline was committed to every book. She formed close relationships with authors and illustrators, often meeting with them to talk about plots and ideas. Often, they became her lifelong friends.

Author Norma Simon wrote a lovely letter about her relationship with Caroline; I’d like to read an excerpt:

I remember when Caroline Rubin first came to Connecticut to meet with Joe Lasker and me. She came bearing the good news that our first Albert Whitman book, BENJY’S BIRD, would be published (in 1965).

Then we talked about a new genre of children’s picture books that Caroline wanted us to try. She called them concept books - picture books that dealt with children’s ideas and emotions instead of linear stories with a beginning, middle and end. (Caroline’s idea became WHAT DO I SAY?, the first of a long list of Concept Books that Whitman has published over these forty years. )

This lovely new editor in our lives, with her encouraging and nurturing attitude, made for strong sympathetic feelings between the three of us. I’ve often wondered what might have become of my writing career without Caroline’s sparks of inspiration, her clear comprehension and appreciation of what I was trying to express, her gentle guidance thru book after book.

In the course of our long correspondence, our children grew up. Education and careers of Betsy and her cousins, marriages, the births of grandchildren, travels abroad, and, always, the annual trip with dear friends to Stratford, Ontario for the Shakespeare Festival filled her letters.

After she retired, she wrote about her new computer:

…my Macintosh is the most exciting and challenging writing tool I’ve ever used. …Writers now have the proverbially impossible: the opportunity to have on’s cake and eat it, too. Keep the original. Make a copy and improve it…Nothing’s lost, try again. The Macintosh, remember, is the descendant of the Apple. So like Eve and her apple, once you’ve bitten into so-called high-tech, the world is never the same.”

Gentleness, graciousness, warmth, comfort, caring, optimism and humor found expression. On her old IBM typewriter or her magical Macintosh, Caroline connected. I am so grateful for our connection.

Caroline Rubin had definite opinions about books for children. She did not like books in which the art or story was too sophisticated, thus directed more toward adults. She did not like books in which the characters were talking animals. She didn’t like books that would be read once and tossed aside.

She wrote of her own editorial preferences: “I believe books should communicate directly, and that children should be able to enjoy them independently. Books can help children understand themselves, show them how to make and do things, and provide a satisfying reading experience.”

This practical, intelligent, confident, and child-friendly editor put her firm print on every book that went out the door, to the enjoyment and benefit of countless children.

It was always a big relief when at last a book was ready to go off to the printer. “Whew!” Caroline would say. Then—I can still hear her cheerful voice, “Next!” After she had retired, every time I talked to her, her first words were “What’s new?”

She was always interested— especially in books, in art, in people. She was always looking to the Next Big Thing. She was the kind of person who trusted that the future would be intriguing and that she could find good there. She is now in our hearts and minds, encouraging us to enjoy books and art and people, to look forward to life, to trust what we can do to affect it, to eagerly and happily embrace what’s coming next.

May 14, 2005 - Delivered by Kathy at Caroline's Memorial Service

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Caroline's business card


Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Opening the Drawer

Caroline with Betsy, Summer 1955

The explanation my mother Caroline told me while I was growing up:

"Your father was George Phelps. He liked trains. When I got pregnant, he told me he didn't want any more children. You see, he had been married before and already had children. When I told him I wanted to keep the baby, he deserted me and moved to California. We were then divorced."

Many years of silence; awkward questions were answered vaguely. In my twenties, I suddenly had the sense that something didn't add up. "Mom, were you and George Phelps really married?"

"Well, no we weren't. It was the '50s, so it was easier to say that we had been married secretly and that he then deserted me. When I found out I was pregnant, George did not want to marry me. He arranged for me to have an abortion. I went to the place to have the abortion but it seemed dirty and I didn't feel comfortable so I left. Then I went to a doctor - a reputable doctor - to have the abortion.

"The doctor said, 'Are you sure you want to have an abortion?' I was single, I had a career; my sister was the one who had gotten married and who had children. I never thought it would happen to me. I was 38. I told him, 'No, I'm going to keep the baby.'"


One day, my two-year-old son was sick. We were over visiting with my mother while my father Mischa was at the dentist. My son was quiet, lying with his head on my lap. I thought to myself, I really do need to know something about my biological father - at least his health history. So I said, "Mom, tell my about my biological father. Tell me about George Phelps."

"Well.... Well.... He might not have been your father."

The room began to rotate. "Do you mean he might not have been my father, or he was not my father?"

"He was not your father."

"Who was my father?"

"You didn't know him, though you met him once by chance. His name was ... Nathan Bernstein."

Bernstein. The room rattled wildly around. My heritage was a surprise but I understood it, my face, my hair, the proportions of my nose and mouth when I smiled. The genes in my cells, alien and familiar. "Why did you make up the whole story about George Phelps if he wasn't my father?"

"George Phelps and I had had a long relationship, but then he moved to California. After he left, I had a brief relationship with this man Nathan Bernstein - he worked in the publishing business and that's how we met. In fact, you were conceived on a Labor Day that we spent together.

"When I found out I was pregnant, I told Nathan but he did not want to get married. I did not pursue it and instead thought that maybe George would marry me, but no. The business about the abortion and my decision was true.

"Everyone had known about my relationship with George Phelps, but no one knew about Nathan. By the time you were born, George was already far away and out of my life; he would never know what I said about him.

"So I changed my last name to Phelps and told everyone I had been secretly married, but was now alone. I never told my mother or my sister or any other friends. I told only two people - at the time, I told my friend Florence Zboyan. Six years later, when I met Mischa and we decided to marry, I told him."

"But why didn't you tell me?"

"It was the 1950s. Single people didn't have babies - not in my social world. I needed to tell people I was married. But I did not have a real relationship with Nathan, no one else knew about him, and he lived right here in Chicago. So I couldn't make up that he and I had gotten married. But everyone knew I had had a relationship with George... and he was far away and would never know. So that was a story I could tell and people would believe.

"In those days, you decided something; you put it in a drawer and shut the drawer, that's all.

"When Mischa and I got married and then he adopted you, I did not tell you about Nathan because I did not want to hurt Mischa's feelings. He was your father now."

"Yes, and Mischa is my father. But still I wish I had known Nathan." I assumed that Nathan was dead, as my mother had once told me that my biological father had died. "Did I ever meet him?"

"Once I took your friend Sarah and you to the Art Institute. You were about 11 or 12. We ran into Nathan there. We stopped and spoke a little. Sometime later he called and asked if I wanted to have lunch with him. I was going to, but then thought the better of it and cancelled. I was happily married and didn't see the need to see Nathan again."

Was I angry at my mother for not telling me? Only a little. I mostly understood her reasons, though they were the reasons of another generation, not mine. My generation did not shut things in drawers. But I thought, I was loved, I am loved. Love surrounded me from the moment of my birth.

When I was 7,
Mischa Rubin came into our lives; he became my father and adopted me. He loved me as much as any man can love a child, and I loved him as much as any child can love a father.

It's true, though, that in the moments after learning that my biological father was one Nathan Bernstein, I could think only of my genetic connections. I went into the bathroom and looked at myself in the mirror. I peered into the faces of my ancestors. I looked at my arms and thought about the blood that coursed through them. I felt giddy and gleeful. I felt like a stranger. I felt dizzy.

That evening, I told my then husband, my children's father. He smiled and shrugged. "You're still the same person. Nothing about you has changed." He was mostly right about that.

My children know their true heritage. It is interesting to them but not significant.

After all, the heritage that seems so important to us is very recent. Our true heritage goes back to the beginning of humankind. What were we all then?

Still, it does matter to me. But not enough that I ever returned to the topic with my mother. Not enough that I ever tried to find out about Nathan Bernstein. Perhaps I will someday, though the distance in time makes that a dwindling possibility.

I was loved, I am loved.

Sunday, July 13, 2008

Which Part of This Is True?

Here is Betsy's Certificate of Baptism. She was baptized at age 5 going on 6 at the Presbyterian Church at 600 W. Fullerton in Chicago.
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Betsy was then Betsy Phelps - with the full name of Margaret Elizabeth Phelps. The name "Betsy" was hers from birth, a diminutive of the middle name "Elizabeth."
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On the Certificate of Baptism, we see that Betsy is the child of George and Caroline Phelps.
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Caroline's name was then Caroline Wenz Phelps. She had explained to her friends and family that George Phelps had married her in secret, and then deserted her while she was pregnant.
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What of this is true? And why did Caroline wait until Betsy was 5 to have her baptized?
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There is more information in the July 16 posting.

Saturday, July 5, 2008

Christmas in July

Betsy's children - January 2008

In the background, you can see Alice's cut-paper Swedish heart hanging above a watercolor made for Betsy by Aunt Peep in 1980.

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Near the top of the tree, you'll see an elf ornament. This jigsawed, painted wooden elf was created by Peep and Teddy, Peep's oldest child, in the early 1960's.





Friday, July 4, 2008

Auntie Poncie: 1st Girl in Washburn with a Bike

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Photo of an 1890 women's bicycle - FROM WEB
Florence's bicycle may have looked something like this.
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Here is a letter that Auntie Poncie (Florence Satterlund) wrote to Peep in about 1928 about her own childhood in the 1890s.


Florence was born in 1882. She would have been 12 in 1894... perhaps the year in which she received her bicycle in Washburn.


Thursday, July 3, 2008

Peep's Birthday

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Hilda Wenz Abraham was born on July 3, 1920.
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Hilda Wenz was the younger daughter of Hilda S. & Edward L. Wenz. Big sister Caroline - 4 years older - called little Hilda "Peep" when she was born, and she was called that by her parents, Caroline, and Caroline's family ever after.
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Peep was an artist from a very young age.
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Peep in about 1933



Pop-up art created by Peep in 1933
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From Peep & Caroline's Sunshine Supplement magazine

for a "convalescent auntie," Auntie Ponce (Florence Satterlund);
Peep's daughter Alice is holding the book in this photo taken 2004.

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Throughout her childhood, Peep drew, painted, and made cut-paper collages prolifically. Across her life, she sketched and drew; painted pictures in oils and watercolors; made prints; painted murals; created collages of photos and drawings; and created dolls, puppets, ornaments, and jewelry. She continued to paint watercolors until the very end of her life in 1980.

Watercolor by Hilda Abraham
Dempsey's Boat House & Keybridge Over Potomac - July 1947

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She also inspired others, including sister Caroline, to create.

A pencil sketch of Peep by sister Caroline.
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Peep was at the center of Caroline's life.

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Alice, Peep's youngest child, is also an artist.
See Alice's cut-paper collages here and here.




Tuesday, July 1, 2008

Washburn, ND - 19th and 21st Centuries

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"King John" Satterlund helped to found the town of Washburn, ND. In the photo below, ca. 1891, he is accompanied by three other Washburn movers and shakers.
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From left to right:
Andy Peterson, Peter Miller, John Satterlund, JS Veeder
=Click picture to enter their world, and find their ribbons=

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The Washburn, ND website gives this information about the founding of the town:
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The city of Washburn was officially founded on November 1, 1882 by "King John" Satterlund. He saw that the area was a great site, with good soil, abundance of wood and coal, and excellent water transportation. Satterlund, who was also the founder of Washburn's newspaper The Leader News, selected the site for a township because he envisioned that this yet untilled area would develop as settlers came. Both Satterlund and his business partner, John Veeder, named the new town Washburn in honor of the late Wisconsin Governor Cadwallader Colden Washburn, whom both men knew in Wisconsin . Washburn was a prominent soldier, political leader and capitalist, besides being governor of Wisconsin from 1872-1874 and US Congressman from 1855-1861 and 1867-1871.
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Learn more about John Satterlund and Washburn's history from Prairie Public Radio.
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Some decades after the "movers and shakers" photo above, John Satterlund's daughter Lulu sent a postcard to her sister, Hilda Satterlund Wenz (John's eldest). This 1912 postcard shows Main St. of Washburn.

In her note, Lulu tells Hilda she has sent the same postcard to their father; so John Satterlund must have been away from Washburn during that time. (Hilda herself was living in Portland, OR, with her new husband, Edward Wenz.)

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Here is the front of the postcard - Washburn, ca 1912:


Washburn in 2006 - photo by Betsy, taken during a family history trip.

Of course, Washburn today is much more than this empty street! To learn more about modern-day Washburn, visit the town's website. Better yet, visit the town itself! It is a great day trip from Bismarck, about 40 miles south of Washburn.

Sunday, June 29, 2008

Caroline Writes to Grandpa - 1926

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This is a letter that 9-year-old Caroline Wenz wrote to
Grandpa Satterlund, her maternal grandfather.
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Grandpa was "King John" Satterlund, a founder of Washburn, ND.
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When Caroline wrote this letter from her home in Perrysburg, Ohio, Grandpa John Satterlund was still living in Washburn. His wife and Caroline's grandmother, Charlotte Satterlund, had already left him and moved with their grown daughter Lulu to San Diego, CA.
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Here is a photo of John Satterlund at about the time of Caroline's letter. The woman at his left is identified as "Mrs. Mann"; the woman at the right is unidentified.

Friday, June 27, 2008

Black and White in 1882, Sepia Today

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Sepia photos started out as black and white.
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Lulu and Hilda Satterlund, ca. 1882, Bismarck, ND
Notice the girls' matching hairdos.

Hilda Satterlund was Caroline's mother
and Betsy's grandmother.

Wednesday, June 25, 2008

Betsy's Universe - 1957


Fun in the Alley was a yearly event in Betsy's childhood
on the mid-north side.
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The article was clipped from the Sunday Sun-Times magazine,
promoting the event for 1958,
with pictures taken the year before.
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This photo tells everything about my world.

Above: The children by the clown and elephant: Suzy Fleishman,
Jenny Netzer, and an unknown child. Below: Esther Fleishman; Caroline & Betsy; Carol Netzer

The universe in this embrace.



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Sunday, June 22, 2008

The Day of David - June 15, 2008


David graduates from DePaul University!


David graduates from St. Charles East High School, 2004

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David is Michael's older son.

Saturday, June 7, 2008

Black and White and Read All Over!

This beautiful quilt was created by artist Amy Oseroff - and Betsy's friend since 1962 (when she was Amy Green) in 2nd grade, Miss Carter's classroom. Amy designed and made this quilt expressly for Literacy Works' silent auction - as you will see, the quilt is inspired by literacy.

JUNE 22 UPDATE: Betsy is now the proud owner. "I just had to have it!"

Here is the artist's statement:

BLACK & WHITE & RED

Amy Oseroff


My big sister used to stump me with the question, “What’s black and white and red all over?”

If I answered, “An embarrassed zebra,” she’d say, “No! It’s a newspaper. It’s the other kind of read.”

If I answered, “A newspaper,” she’d say, “No! It’s an embarrassed zebra. It’s the other kind of red.”

I was so glad when I learned to read and I finally got the joke.

Saturday, May 31, 2008

What Do You Notice?

3-Year-Old Writer
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What do you notice about this picture?
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How do you see this writer's future?
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To help parents promote their young children's development as writers, please support Literacy Works.
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Betsy works for Literacy Works. See pictures of the work she does here.

Monday, May 26, 2008

May 26, 1916: Caroline in the World!




Caroline was premature, weighing under 5 pounds at birth. Her parents made a bassinet out of a drawer, wrapped her up, and put a lamp over her to keep her warm. She grew to be a tall woman of 5'8" and lived to be 88 years old.
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Her mother, Hilda, was 38 when Caroline was born; her father, Edward, was about 30 or 31.


Caroline, 1916
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Here is Caroline in her last year of life.

Caroline, 2004

Sunday, May 25, 2008

Edward Withdraws from U of M - 1906



Edward L. Wenz enrolled in engineering school at the University of Michigan but withdrew in 1906 without completing his degree.
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A year later, he was working as a surveyor in the US land office in Bismarck, North Dakota. There he met Hilda Satterlund, whom he would follow around the country and eventually convince to marry him. Ultimately, Edward and Hilda would end up in Edward's hometown, where Edward would work as a surveyor with his father, Ferdinand, also a surveyor.
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We do not know why Edward left U of M.
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Saturday, May 24, 2008

Your Generation Did Not Invent Sex


"My What a Time We Did Have"

I lost my virginity last Wednesday down at the Cook house where I stayed all night with a girl from Detroit; my what a time we did have. There were two of them when I picked them up, and I thought at the time, now if Wenz were only here, what a time we would have....
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I was on the tug of war team this year. I didn’t get an M, but then that don’t matter as long as the Red Head wants me to come up and see her tomorrow night. I think she wants the ramrod and I think I am going to give it to her if she does because I hate to see anyone in want, don’t you, especially for something that’s as cheap as a pronging iron.
-- A. J. Hillman, a college chum of Edward's
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In 1907, Edward Wenz had left his engineering studies at the University of Michigan at Ann Arbor and moved to work in the land office at Bismarck, ND, where he was soon to meet his future wife, Hilda Satterlund.
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Not long after Edward’s arrival in Bismarck, he received this letter from an Ann Arbor pal, who regaled Edward with tales of his (newly launched) lascivious exploits.
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This pal, a young "Art J. Hillman," mentioned the "wild and wooly west" where Edward had relocated - namely, North Dakota; pal Art also wondered "what the chances are out there for embryonic statesmen and promising young lawyers like myself."
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We don't know if young Mr. Hillman ever made a name for himself as a statesman or lawyer, but he certainly enjoyed his romp in Ann Arbor.
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Here is the letter Edward ("Friend Wenz") received from his college chum.
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Click to enlarge each page.





In case, you want to read it all and read it fast, here is the letter transcribed verbatim:

University of Michigan Law Department

Ann Arbor June 13, 1907

Friend Wenz: -
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The pressure of exams has kept me from answering your letter at an earlier date, and if you will try and overlook my long delay in answering I will endeavor to be more prompt in the future.
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I have only seen “Laury” once since you left, she said to tell you to send her a quarter and she would forgive you for leaveing her in that unexpected manner.
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I am glad to hear that you like your job and the femininity in Bismark, speaking of femininity makes me think that I lost my virginity last Wednesday down at the Cook house where I stayed all night with a girl from Detroit ; my what a time we did have there were two of them when I picked them up , and I thought at the time now if Wenz were only here what a time we would have.
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I ought to come around about Saterday if I was stung which I hope I was not!
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I guess I got through all my exams O.K. but I do hate the prospect of staying here all or most of the summer, for it is certainly a dead hole now that most of the fellows have gone home.
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I am to be steward at the house beginning Saturday and through next year. a candy job beside of waiting tables.
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You ask for the news from Ann Arbor in detail, well I thought you had been here long enough to know that the news here is a scarce article, almost as scarce as tail is.
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I don’t know whether Cy has written you of not if he has he has probably told you about haveing his wife out there with him , the papers where were full of it for a while,
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You must excuse my mistakes as I am a green hand at using a typewriter and poke the wrong button every once in a while.
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Duncan is going out to Billings next week and that will leave me here in the house alone with his mother and another mother and her charming young daughter, three women what a place to be . It makes me think of a quotation from “the Ancient Mariner” : "Water water every where and not a drop to drink”
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I suppose you keep posted on the athletic news from the papers so I’ll not bother you with that perhaps you didn’t read that I was on the tug of war team this year , I didn’t get an M but then that don’t matter as long as the Red Head wants me to come up and see her tomorrow night I think she wants the ramrod and I think I am going to give it to her if she does because I hate to see anyone in want don’t you especially for something that’s as cheap as a pronging iron.
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I want to call your attention to the fact that a letter written on a typewriter doesn’t take up very much room and that is a good deal longer than it looks.
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Write to me soon and tell me all about the wild and wooly west and what the chances are out there for embryonic statesmen and promising young lawyers like myself.
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I don’t know what I am going to do during the next two weeks as I have no work assigned for the first two weeks of summer school.
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Guess I’ll have to see what the Red Head is made of and go to it.
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Address your letters to 426 Maynard St.
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Yours as ever,
Art J. Hillman

Sunday, May 18, 2008

Signs of the Past

Faded sign, Loop, Chicago - 2005
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Boston Store opened in Chicago in 1917 and closed in 1948.
This sign remains.
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Faded sign, South Cottage Grove Avenue, Chicago - 2007
To see more detail, click to enlarge the photo.

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Woodlawn and South Shore must have had a large Irish population in the early 20th century.
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Two clues indicate that the O'Hanley sign may be near 100 years old: Tel. Hyde Park 663 and the word Undertaker
instead of Funeral Home.

A couple of ancestry websites listing obituaries for families with Irish names show the phone number Hyde Park 663 in 1913 & 1918 Chicago Tribune obituaries:
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John R. Ahern
John R. Ahern, Dec. 2, beloved son of Officer Michael and the late Nellie, nee Russell, brother of Wm. J. and Mary C. Ahern, at residence of his aunt, Mrs. J. G. Smith, 6502 Champlain-av. Funeral Wednesday, Dec. 5, at 9:30 a.m., to Holy Cross church. Autos to Mt. Olivet.
For seats call Hyde Park 663.
— Chicago Tribune 3 December 1913

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1918-04-01 Chicago Tribune (IL) HOGAN
Edition: Chicago Tribune
John Hogan, March 31, 6327 Ingleside-av., beloved husband of Mary, nee Mielhall, fond father of Patrick, James, John, Marietta and Thomas, brother of Michael Hogan and Sister Mary Mechtildes, Sister of Mercy, Marshalltown, Ia. Native of Country Carlow, Ireland. Funeral Tuesday, April 2, at 10:30 a.m., to Holy Cross church, autos to Mt. Olivet.
For seats call Hyde Park 663.

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What is the family history connection here?
Nothing direct, other than the signs' appearance in Betsy's hometown.
They foster a sort of time travel,
in much the same way as the objects in Betsy's Boxes.

Friday, May 16, 2008

Familiar Object: Image

1950's, bag for nylon stockings

During Betsy's months of sorting Caroline's things in 2004, her friend Denise had a suggestion. "If you can't bear to part with something, but you know it's ridiculous to keep it," she said, "just take a picture of it and keep the picture."


In going through Mom's apartment on 56th Street, I came upon this decorated bag for stashing nylon stockings. It was from the mid-20th century, something that used to hang in the North Side apartment we lived in when I was very little. I hadn't seen the stocking bag in about 45 years, yet the recognition was instant, like seeing a face of a person I once knew.

The bag was a talisman that took me back to an older home, the apartment on Kemper Place, a home that belonged to my mother and me alone in the late 1950s. I went back to the pliant wood floors and ornate radiators hissing and shedding paint flakes, the wicker furniture that my mother upholstered in patterned linen.

Still, today, there was no reason to keep a cracked, deteriorated plastic bag that no one would ever again use. This was the time to try Denise's suggestion.


The image lives on!

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Here is a recent photo (2000) of the building on Kemper Place at the Cook County Assessor's website. From 1958-1961, Caroline and Betsy lived on the 2nd floor.

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Thursday, May 15, 2008

Caroline, Red Hair, Gold Leaf

Caroline, sunshine, Montgomery Place garden, 2004

Tuesday, May 13, 2008

What Is a Place?

Caroline's living room - 2004
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The building still stands, the apartment is there, but this home is not. New people have made it someplace different, which is nothing to be sad about. We are fortunate to have always had a place to live, in safety, comfort and love.
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The photo shows a home whose rooms and halls, floors and walls are patterned in my brain.
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To be honest, though, the photo itself lies a little. It was taken in 2004, after Caroline had moved to Montgomery Place for her last months. No one was living in the apartment, really.

I went there every day to sort through the objects, books, pictures, and papers and to throw away the things I struggled to declare meaningless.

The items of undeniable value, and others of undefinable value, were placed in boxes and moved to my home. I mailed some boxes to others, reuniting the images and creations of people now dead with their living loved ones.

The sorting was a rite; each object had a soul. I knelt on the solid floor beneath curving arches and high ceilings, the sun shining on me through dusty windows. The bright air reverberated like an organ chord.

When others came to help, the space shrank back into an apartment. My friend Helen helped me pour 40-year-old liquor from dozens of dingy bottles down the drain. We discovered a box of hideous recipes from the 1950s to the '70s, including one for hamburger soup.

Alice came from Boston; she held her feelings and catalogued like the librarian she is; she labored, packed and taped up cheerful, funny notes.

When the others left, the sacred silence rushed back.

And in the silence, the months went by. The rooms for living in became repositories of boxes, scattered files, and mounds of coffee mugs, scraps of paper, stacks of old books, envelopes of photos, small clay figures, folded blankets.

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Then the apartment died.

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A strange smell permeated the air, though there was nothing alive to rot.

The apartment became infested with flies. Every time I went over, there was a faint buzzing. Each day, I killed 5, 6, or 8 flies. The buzzing fell silent; I worked and left. The next day, the buzzing was back and I killed more flies. The windows were smeared with fly remains.

I sold 20 boxes of books to a bookseller who understood the importance of objects. I donated 20 boxes of books and took 20 boxes of books to my own home. I gave away furniture and carried my mother's clothes like a wounded body to a church, where I was embraced by the rummage sale ladies.

I packed everything up, and people came to help me move the last of the items. We worked hard, slid boxes across the floor, and laughed as we wedged impossibly tall objects into the small elevator.

I bombed the apartment with insecticide and the flies finally fell.

I had the apartment scrubbed. It smelled of Mr. Clean.

I took photos of the last art fair I would see from the windows.


The apartment was a set of rooms, very still, and the meaning moved into my brain.

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Here are places I can see, feel, and walk through, though they no longer exist.















Monday, May 12, 2008

Our Love Grows for You Daily

Poster of cut paper by Alice
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Alice made a series of posters for Caroline's room at Montgomery Place. During her visits to Chicago every other month, Alice often brought a supply of colored paper and a pair of scissors. While visiting with Caroline, she sat patiently cutting designs freehand and pasted them into beautiful posters which she hung on Caroline's wall.
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Alice was Caroline's niece, and Peep's youngest daughter.

Sunday, May 11, 2008

Chess Is Not a Crime!

Michael (center) playing chess at Borders - 2007
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Chess players from all over Chicago's South Side gather at the Hyde Park Borders bookstore. There once was an outdoor chess scene at the square in Harper Court, a complex of small shops. However, one spring night in 2002, Harper Court management spirited away the chess benches; community rage and protests were of no avail.
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The chess players have tried different venues; Borders, which opened in Hyde Park several years after the benches were removed from Harper Court, has been the most welcoming.
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Betsy's husband, Michael, is one of the chess regulars.

Friday, May 9, 2008

Peep's Swedish Doors

Peep's Swedish doors, now at Alice & Chris's house in Vermont
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Peep painted Swedish folk art designs on the swinging doors of mother Hilda's kitchen in Perrysburg, Ohio in the late 1930s. Peep's family took the doors after Hilda died and the house was sold in the '70s.
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The doors now grace a perfect new place: the bedroom closet in the Vermont home of Peep's daughter Alice and her spouse Chris.
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Peep (whose real name was also Hilda) was the younger daughter of Hilda Satterlund Wenz and Edward Wenz; she was Caroline's younger sister.

Friday, May 2, 2008

Pencil Portraits by Caroline

Portrait of Hilda Wenz, ca 1936
This pencil drawing, likely dating to the mid-1930s, was found among Caroline's things. It is a portrait of her mother Hilda, perhaps sometime in her fifties or sixties. Caroline, who enjoyed sketching now and then, would use this style of shading throughout her life.
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Compare the shading of Caroline's 1930's sketch above to her work in 2003, as an adult with Alzheimer's disease. Until the very last months of her illness, Caroline enjoyed using colored pencils to shade in the line drawings in coloring books like the one below.
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Coloring book page (detail) shaded by Caroline, ca 2003
Harriet Tubman - Famous Women of the Civil War

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In 2000 and 2001, Caroline was still able to draw free-hand. Colors and details were sometimes unusual. See Caroline's sketch below (initials and date recorded in corner by Betsy).

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Portrait of Betsy, 2001

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Sunday, April 27, 2008

5 Years, Big Grins, Full Hearts

April 27, 2003

With our mothers

The wedding was at International House in Hyde Park, Chicago.

The chaplain of the U of C Hospitals officiated.


Bicycle accident... broken hip... 6 weeks later, a walk down the aisle.

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Second + third photos by Neal McNamara -- thanks, Neal!
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Saturday, April 26, 2008

Miss Satterlund Becomes a Teacher - 1897

Three generations of teachers... though all of the women did other work as well. Hilda taught children in a rural North Dakota school in the 19th century, Caroline taught children in small-town Ohio schools in the mid-20th century, and Betsy has taught adults in Chicago in the 20th-21st centuries.

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Here is Hilda Satterlund's Permit to Teach - April 1897;
she would have been 18.

Below, students in Hilda's first class pose at the Sverdrup School some miles from Washburn, ND.


Hilda boarded with a family during the week and went home to her parents' house in Washburn on the weekends. Before her teaching stint, she'd been living in the family's Bismarck house, doing clerical work at the capitol, and keeping house for herself and younger sisters Lulu and Florence. It's not clear what the sisters did when Hilda accepted the teaching post.

Read more about Hilda's teaching experience.


This entry to be continued....

Friday, April 25, 2008

Day 1 - Day 6,935

2007


1994


Day 1 - 1988
The cord is still attached.
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This is Betsy's son.


Sunday, April 13, 2008

Hyde Park Murals - 2008 & 1979

Betsy's daughter is on the right;
she and 3 friends took these pictures by murals
under the Metra tracks ... formerly the IC tracks...
in Hyde Park, April 2008.


Above and below: friends of Betsy's daughter




NOW GO BACK 29 YEARS...

Betsy in 1979 by another mural under the IC tracks.
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At the time, I thought maybe this photo was a sign of what my own life was to be,
but it hasn't been.
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You can contemplate the statement about the human condition in
the poem by James Agee (ca 1937), which this mural illustrates.
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RAPID TRANSIT

Squealing under city stone
The millions on the millions run,
Every one a life alone,
Every one a soul undone:
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There all the poisons of the heart
Branch and abound like whirling brooks
And there through every useless art
Like spoiled meats on a butcher's hooks
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Pour forth upon their frightful kind
The faces of each ruined child:
The wrecked demeanors of the mind
That now is tamed, and once was wild.

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The "Under City Stone" mural, painted in 1972 by Carol Yasko,
is still there, but deteriorated. A restoration project is
supposed to be in the works; we'll see.


Sunday, April 6, 2008

The Lovely - 1997 and 2007

Betsy's daughter at age 4-5 and 15

Tuesday, April 1, 2008

Blue Devil

John Satterlund and son Floyd in the Blue Devil, Washburn, ca 1906
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John Satterlund had the first car in Washburn, ND, or so it's been said. It's also been said that when he first drove the car, he did not know how to brake and consequently drove up the steps of the state capitol in Bismarck.
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Floyd tinkering with the Blue Devil, Washburn, ca 1910

Saturday, March 29, 2008

Heart by Alice


Alice created this piece of art to hang in Caroline's room at Montgomery Place. It is a collage of colored paper that is cut out and woven in the Swedish folk art style with her own vision.

This small piece--about the size of a sheet of typing paper--was surrounded by several larger posters Alice made for this last place that Caroline lived--February to August 2004.

Caroline and Alice were aunt and niece. Alice's heart tells it all.

Friday, March 28, 2008

Spring Riot Inside

Amaryllis from Chris
~ Outside: 33 degrees ~

Saturday, March 22, 2008

Where She Lived: Caroline, 1916-2004

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Caroline: A Life in Locations
Tax returns help to document a life. Links take you to views of these places in the 21st century.

56th St. at South Shore Dr., Montgomery Place, dementia unit, Chicago, IL 60637 - February 2004-August 2004
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1321 E. 56th St., apt. 9, Chicago 60637 - October 1972-February 2004
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1400 E. 55th Pl., 301, Chicago 60637 - July 1962-October 1972

1400 E. 55th Pl., apt. 1007, Chicago 60637 - Summer1961-July 1962

616 W. Kemper Pl., 2nd or 3rd floor, Chicago, 14, Illinois (now 60614) - Late 1958 or early 1959-1961

519 W. Belden, 1st floor, Chicago, 14, Illinois - June 1956-1958

520 W. Belden, apt. 3-O, Chicago, 14, Illinois - 1954 or 1955-June 1956

1360 N. Lake Shore Dr., #517N, Chicago, 10, Illinois (now 60610) - 1950 or 1951-1954 or 1955

938 N. LaSalle St., Chicago, 10, Illinois - 1947-1949 or 1950

3313 Kenilworth, Berwyn, Illinois (staying at family home of a friend from the WAVES) - 1946-1947

29172 E. River Road, Perrysburg, Ohio (her home of birth) - 1945-1946
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Seattle, Washington, in WAVES, USNR - 1943-1945
(1) May 1943: c/o King family, 2424 E. Lynn - briefly boarded here
(2) May: 1943: c/o Hinman family, 229 35th St. N - boarded here until WOQ were built
(3) Dec. 1943: WAVES Officer Quarters, US Naval Station, Seattle, 99, Washington
(4) 1945 (after war ended) c/o Florence Satterlund, apt. 104,1633 Melrose, Seattle, 22, Washington - stayed here briefly; her possessions were shipped from here back to Perrysburg

Mt. Holyoke College Campus/South Hadley, Massachusetts; Smith College Campus/Northampton, Mass. for Midshipman’s Training for WAVES - 1943

29172 E. River Rd., Perrysburg, Ohio - 1916 (birth) - 1943
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While teaching school in small Ohio towns in the late 1930's/early '40s, Caroline boarded at least once with a local resident during the week and probably went home on the weekend.
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While serving in the WAVES in WWII, she lived in officers' quarters some of the time and boarded at the home of a widow and her daughters some of the time. I will fill in these addresses when I find them.

Friday, March 21, 2008

March 21 - What a day for G and M

~ Much love to you, Gwyn and Martin ~
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Get Well & Birthday Wishes
with love from
Betsy and Michael

Wednesday, March 19, 2008

Almost Spring

Amaryllis from Christine
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Our amaryllis is just starting to open. The plant in the carafe is a cutting from the dieffenbachia Mom had since the 1950s. There is still more spring inside than outside.

Tuesday, March 18, 2008

Two Worlds - 1925

Two pictures from 1925. The top photo is possibly Hilda Wenz's Sunday School class, but more likely Caroline's 9th birthday party. The girls are standing by the Wenzes' house on East River Road in Perrysburg, Ohio; Caroline would have turned 9 on May 26, 1925. Caroline is the 2nd girl from the front.
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Can you find the maypole? The little circus tent?
No? Then click the photo to enlarge.
And at about the same time in a very different place,
here's Mischa (right) with his brother & mother, Bronx, NY.
37 years later... Mischa and Caroline married.
~The Rubins have something in common with one of Caroline's friends!~
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See the full photo of Mischa and family here.
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Notes on back of the Perrysburg photo at top give the name and age of each girl:
Virginia Kidney, 9; Caroline, 9; Evelyn Hutchinson, 9 1/2; Kathryn Cummins, 8 1/2;
Miriam West, 9 1/2; Virginia Zachman, 8 1/2; Peep, 5; Ruth Cummins, 4 1/2
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If the top photo was indeed taken in 1925, Peep would not yet have been 5 years old; she would have turned 5 on July 3. So either the wrong age was written for Peep, or the photo was actually taken later in the summer of 1925--in which case, it would not have been at the time of Caroline's birthday.


Saturday, March 15, 2008

Going to Mish

-Mischa, ca 1926

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Here are stories about Mischa as a teenager in New York in the 1920s.
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Mischa with friends

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I remember Mischa when we were teen-agers, he was one of the brightest and most wonderful friends. My home was like a community house where a group of us boys and girls got together every Friday evening. Mischa was with us every Friday evening. He was the one playing chess and taking part in discussions on world affairs – theatre – dance – music and poetry. We were platonic friends, not like to-day, couples making out.
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He was an outstanding lovable person amongst us.
--Lilyan Pell, 1995


Mischa with Sol Horowitz, 1980s

Sol Horowitz, a lifelong friend into adulthood wrote:

At home, when asked where I was going by my mother or father I replied “going to Mish." It was my standard reply for years.
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Here is Sol's full letter to Caroline:


Feb 3, 1995

Dear Caroline,

I hope that offering my condolences on your loss will lighten your grief—even if just a little.

Mischa was a great guy. We met in the sixth grade in Junior High School 55 in the Bronx—and became fast friends. At home, when asked where I was going by my mother or father I replied “going to Mish”. It was my standard reply for years.

I’ll miss him. I cried a little. So I can imagine what it must be like for you.

I hope this letter helps a little.

Sol
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Thanks to Topher for the photo of Mischa with friends.

Thursday, March 13, 2008

The Wenz Sisters - ca 1926

Caroline and Peep - ca 1926
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Reading builds a bond of love.
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Caroline, Peep, and Mischa - 1970s

Caroline, Peep (Hilda), and Mischa - 1970s
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Caroline with two of her dearest loves: husband Mischa and sister Peep. The ladies' dresses are of the 1970s wrap variety; Caroline may have sewn her own and possibly Peep's.
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When I picture Mom in my growing-up years, she is always wearing a dress, beads, and earrings.
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Saturday, March 8, 2008

Alice and Anne - North Dakota Pasture - ca 1966

Alice and Anne, Morris pasture, North Dakota - ca 1966

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Alice and Anne are walking in a pasture on a visit to North Dakota with their mother (Peep) and family in the mid-1960s. Peep's family lived in Washington, DC, but often traveled around the country in a camper with their pet llama.

Peep's real name was Hilda; she was named after her mother, Hilda Satterlund Wenz.

Alice, Anne, their two older siblings, and their cousin Betsy were great-grandchildren of John and Charlotte Satterlund.

The pasture belonged to Marian Morris and her family. Marian and 3 sisters were grandchildren of John Satterlund's sister Mary Satterlund Larson. Marian and her sister Inez remained and raised their own families in Bismarck, where they both live today. Their sister Irene lives in Minnesota, and their dear sister, Harriet, of Canada, has passed away.

Friday, March 7, 2008

16 Years Ago

Grandpa Mischa with His Youngest Grandchild - 1992
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16 years of joyful connections.
Happy birthday - thanks - and love - to HRS.


Thursday, March 6, 2008

Betsy y Alba en Madrid - 1980

Foto - Felix Serrano
Betsy y Alba
Madrid
1980

After completing graduate school in 1979, Betsy spent much of a year teaching English in Madrid. Although my Spanish was not fluent--especially not at first--Alba made me feel like a human being, not a foreigner.


Wednesday, February 27, 2008

Today and Always

~ Our Family ~
November 2004
Pawnee Earth Lodge
Field Museum of Natural History, Chicago

Saturday, February 23, 2008

A Still Night and the Far Red Lights of Home - 1912

A silkscreened page from March in Hilda and Edward's 1912 calendar
~ Poem by H. H. Bashford ~

The Satterlunds' home in Bismarck, 3rd St., ca 1900.
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Home is on the left.
Find the two shadow figures.

Wednesday, February 20, 2008

Mischa at the University of Chicago - 1930s

Mischa, about 21 - University of Chicago, ca 1932
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Mischa first attended the City University of New York (CUNY), then transferred to the University of Chicago in 1931, probably on scholarship, where he received his bachelor's degree in about 1932. In 1935, he received his JD from the U of C Law School.

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Years later, for the love of literature, Mischa taught at the U of C's Great Books Program in his spare time. From his University of Chicago days until his death in 1995, he lived on Chicago's South Side, mainly in Hyde Park.
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While in law school, Mischa served on the Board of Editors of the University of Chicago Law Review in 1934-35, its second year of publication. (Click to enlarge Law Review.)
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At the law school, Mischa met people who later became well known, though he was never fascinated by fame.
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Edward H. Levi, who served as U of C President and then as US Attorney General under President Ford, was the Editor in Chief of the U of C Law Review the year Mischa served on its Board (see cover above).
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Mischa was also acquainted with Studs Terkel, who was a year ahead of him at law school. Mischa described riding the streetcar to Terkel's mother's boarding house to buy used law books from him.



Friday, February 15, 2008

The Dearest Face - 1992

Betsy's daughter, not yet a year

Wednesday, February 13, 2008

Street Valentines - 2 Hearts 2008

February 2008
In Betsy and Michael's driveway
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Taking a break from work the other day, I gazed out my window and saw these tiremarks in the snow.
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This is a snapshot, unadulterated, of the actual vista outside Betsy and Michael's home.

Tuesday, February 12, 2008

A Valentine from '29

Caroline saved several dozen Valentines, store-bought and homemade,
which she received in 1926 and 1929 (at ages 9 and 12).
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Here are just a few.

(Above) From Jay Compton
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(Below) Hand-drawn and scissored, from Ruth Long



(Above) From Beatrice;
Fans of Mary Engelbreit (maryengelbreit.com):
Notice the style of this Valentine and

the one given by Jay Compton (at top)
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(Below) Artist and giver unknown